basically, they want to dress up and look cute and want people to see them
What the fukk is it with women wanting to go out?
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basically, they want to dress up and look cute and want people to see them
Same, but I don't come near pity, if the mufukkas self reflected/self improved more often having to sit with self, and the life they live would be exponentially easier, but going/hanging out offers the distractions that give them bail
bourgeoisie tall freak
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If it ain't my woman of 3+ months I'm not pressed to go out regardless. And for many men the bolded can be achieved from home. People ignore that this shyt cost money so unless it's something you thoroughly enjoy, you actively have to accept that you are wasting your time + money for someone else. For me I really gotta like the woman as a complete person to waste both. Wasting money for sex (getting a chick drinks at a bar to later get sex) is ok. Inviting a chick over (talking, watching a show, getting high to later have sex) is ok. Going out, spending money and time, while also having to deal with strangers that will more likely than not irritate me at some point. Not ok with just any broad, not ok for just sex. Woman's gotta have intrinsic value
If men had more discretion going out with a chick wouldn't be as common as it is now.
nah i don't ignore that it cost money. lol, i just don't care. i always offer to pay for my stuff or at least buy a round but they look at me crazy
you should see my bestf when we go out to eat, he usually be racing me to pull his card out. i think he's embarrased to have a girl pay for him. but that's not everybody, i know
in the end i think a lot of men will get it when they look at it from a female perspective. not the female that you have a love hate, use and abuse relationship with. but say your daughter. would you want lil bossino settling for a guy who only wanted her to come over his apartment?
i'm sure you would even advice her to only meet up in a public place
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
dikk, and nothing else. But tbh the same we expect from women, which is not a damn thing. Enjoy the company, bytch
Or she could just not fukk with you
There are plenty of men willing to take women out.
I don't think there is anything wrong with a woman wanting to go out. I believe it should be a part of the dating experience.
As for spending money, the person spending money has co teol over what is spent. Just have to find someone who isn't high maintenance.
Only thing is now, there isn't much to do because of Covid-19.
Lastly, women don't wanna just go to a man's house and have sex. Some may be cool with it, but not when they first meet someone. Makes them feel like a whore (which they shouldn't feel that way, if the sex is mutual).
As for spending money, the person spending money has co teol over what is spent. Just have to find someone who isn't high maintenance.
Only thing is now, there isn't much to do because of Covid-19.
Lastly, women don't wanna just go to a man's house and have sex. Some may be cool with it, but not when they first meet someone. Makes them feel like a whore (which they shouldn't feel that way, if the sex is mutual).
Women are simply more social than men, naturally. They're going to want to be out more doing shyt.What is so appealing to women when a man takes her out and spends money on her? I've been really trying to figure this out.
All women find this appealing I just can not figure it out.
Plus most of these broads live pretty boring lives on their own and can't afford to go out on their own so of course they're going to jump at the opportunity to go out on someone else's dime.
nah i don't ignore that it cost money. lol, i just don't care. i always offer to pay for my stuff or at least buy a round but they look at me crazy
you should see my bestf when we go out to eat, he usually be racing me to pull his card out. i think he's embarrased to have a girl pay for him. but that's not everybody, i know
in the end i think a lot of men will get it when they look at it from a female perspective. not the female that you have a love hate, use and abuse relationship with. but say your daughter. would you want lil bossino settling for a guy who only wanted her to come over his apartment?
If the dude was stable, self-sufficent had, good character was saving/investing his money and treated her well, I'd be fine with it. And after 3-4+ months I'd take a girlfriend out monthly or bi-monthly but I'd have an allocated capped amount on that dollar amount regardless.
To your added point yes she should go somewhere public in the getting to know someone stage, but that doesn't equate to spending money, but women have called walks, park dates, hikes cheap/shytty dates which goes to show the point wasn't getting to know each other
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Succubi, and so called men on this forum be shocked when I say most women ain't worth it as complete people.
Mindfield333
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What should the alternative be?What is so appealing to women when a man takes her out and spends money on her? I've been really trying to figure this out.
All women find this appealing I just can not figure it out.
Or she could just not fukk with you
There are plenty of men willing to take women out.
Obviously, just answering the question you posed. To your latter point a fool and his money will soon part, more often than not there's a hoe at that divergent point
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Obviously, just answering the question you posed. To your latter point a fool and his money will soon part, more often than not there's a hoe at that divergent point
It’s honestly safer for a woman to be in a public place when she first meets a man. Wasn’t there just a thread about a woman being attacked in the car by her date. I was also a victim when on a “study date” and the guy decided to try to rape me/kill me.
If you think of us as Cavemen, alot of male/female dynamics make sense. She just wants validation.
They're not. But the issue is most dudes aren't worth it as complete people either so the shyt works. The REAL issue is not shyt people never can recognize they're not shyt people so they get upset when it turns out the women/men they attract are not shyt either.
