What the fukk is it with women wanting to go out?

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I don't think there is anything wrong with a woman wanting to go out. I believe it should be a part of the dating experience.

As for spending money, the person spending money has co teol over what is spent. Just have to find someone who isn't high maintenance.

Only thing is now, there isn't much to do because of Covid-19.

Lastly, women don't wanna just go to a man's house and have sex. Some may be cool with it, but not when they first meet someone. Makes them feel like a whore (which they shouldn't feel that way, if the sex is mutual).

dudes shaming women for having sex with them fukked the game up a bit
 

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You comfortable sharing details? :lupe:

I was in school with him, we set up a study date and I went to his house. Literally we were sitting down and we were talking and next thing I know he’s on top of me, strangling me, I don’t really remember what happened after he started strangling me, I only remember pieces of it. Just what people told me.
 

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I was in school with him, we set up a study date and I went to his house. Literally we were sitting down and we were talking and next thing I know he’s on top of me, strangling me, I don’t really remember what happened after he started strangling me, I only remember pieces of it. Just what people told me.

:picard:
Must have been a jiu jujitsu miracle.
Glad u okay sis
 

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If the dude was stable, self-sufficent had, good character was saving/investing his money and treated her well, I'd be fine with it. And after 3-4+ months I'd take a girlfriend out monthly or bi-monthly but I'd have an allocated capped amount on that dollar amount regardless.

To your added point yes she should go somewhere public in the getting to know someone stage, but that doesn't equate to spending money, but women have called walks, park dates, hikes cheap/shytty dates which goes to show the point wasn't getting to know each other
if you catching a vibe it shouldn’t matter where. Some corny chicks wanna stunt for social media
 

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The optimistic way I see it is being a good excuse to try to new places to eat without sitting by yourself. Or just to hit a regular spot without being alone. If I’m feigning the food I don’t care about spending money. We going cause I’m hungry

I been trying to hit up first watch but I’m not going with @Another Man
 
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Women are more advanced socially from birth and they mature quicker than men. So they know how to deal and manipulate the opposite sex quicker than men on average early on. Then you add to the fact that they are more emotionally in-tuned and need constant validation and attention to satisfy their brains. :manny:

Men on the other hand are more pragmatic and rational in their thought process. If you put most men in a bubble and just gave them free various foods, bills paid, their favorite recreational activities (such as a b-ball court, gym, ps5 etc) and a 3 big booty 9s that came in whenever they needed to bust then most would be perfectly content with that lifestyle.

On the other hand, a lot of women wouldn't be handle the lack of constant attention and validation. They NEED to talk, they NEED others to give them that social gratification. It's just hardwired into them. Most men whether they admit it or not do things FOR women.:yeshrug:
 
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The optimistic way I see it is being a good excuse to try to new places to eat without sitting by yourself. Or just to hit a regular spot without being alone. If I’m feigning the food I don’t care about spending money. We going cause I’m hungry

I been trying to hit up first watch but I’m not going with @Another Man

THAT PART. Dating should be fun, you also having an experience for yourself. Too many people coming into it with baggage and thirsty at the same t time. Bro, just hit me up when you in a good mood and you not starved for sex :pachaha:
 

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I was in school with him, we set up a study date and I went to his house. Literally we were sitting down and we were talking and next thing I know he’s on top of me, strangling me, I don’t really remember what happened after he started strangling me, I only remember pieces of it. Just what people told me.
Just what people told you? You went to his house and he strangled you in front of other people that were at his house?
 

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What is so appealing to women when a man takes her out and spends money on her? I've been really trying to figure this out.

All women find this appealing I just can not figure it out. :mindblown:

Brehs: "Yo, bruh, I got 4 tickets to the Lakers. Pull up, fam! Ay, and call Trey to bring the backwoods, after the game we smokin and hittin the club downtown!"
OP: :blessed::blessed::blessed:

Shortie with the bubble butt: "Hey, maybe we see a movie and get something to eat sometime ?:queen:"
OP: :mindblown::mindblown::mindblown:
 
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