what truely makes a man misoginyst

[Drew Wonder]

It's funny to me how guys degrade what they want to put their dikk in.

It's about offering value with sex being a Win-Win.

Overall I don't think modern men and women of todays society are all too familiar or conscious or lack an understanding of our polarizing relationship. It's something I continue to learn more and more about each day.

I think the gender wars will end when everyone just comes to grips with the fact that EVERYONE, regardless of gender, is generally selfish and looking out for their own self-interest most of the time. Nine times out of ten that dude who treats women like shyt or that woman who takes advantage of men was once a "nice" person who got played by a member of the opposite sex, so their whole persona is really just a defense mechanism. But that's life. People go out of their way and deny their own self interest to be vulnerable or to submit to someone else, and they get played. I guess how you react to that and how you let that experience shape you is a testament to your true character. But that's a people thing, not a man or woman thing

 

[Dwolf]

Lack of sleep. Enlighten me

Its a line from the classic track Trap House by Gucci Mane.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

There are multiple pieces to this:
1. What is Misogyny?
2.Why are some men misogynists while others are not?

1. A man who cannot or will not respect a woman's humanity is a misogynist. He does not see women as people. He sees them as concepts as ideas. A misogynist already has his mind made up before he talks to a woman. He has already decided that he wants her to have sex with him and just do whatever he asks her to do. He feels entitled to respect and to servitude based off the fact that he is a man. He believes that as a man he ought to have more advantages because he is naturally better. Being a man entitles him to more opportunity and more power. Not unlike some misandrists who see men as nothing more than a source of money and sex. The common thread is a devaluing of the person's humanity.

2.Some men are misogynists because they are not aware that their behaviour or thoughts are considered misogyny. They were raised to think of women a certain way and then have acted accordingly. They have gotten their messages from movies, music, TV, books, people in real life, etc. Other men are misogynists because of experience.

Consistent rejection over what they perceive to be asinine reasons ("he asked me if he could kiss me, ew so weird" "he was too nice to me. That's just gross and unnatural. I had to dump him") can turn men into misogynists. If in their experience, they have tried to be respectful to women and have only received complaints and rejections, the natural course of action for them is to shift into the other direction and give them no respect because experiences have taught them that women don't want that. Whether or not they have just been unlucky and have been around women that don't know what they want/are more used to being mistreated because that is what is natural for them is irrelevant. A man that has been hurt won't see it like that. He'll think there is something wrong with women in general and approach them with a general perspective instead of trying to tailor his approach to women on an individual basis.

Most men have some level of disrespect/hate for women in them, just like most women do for men. It's a matter of finding the right person who can change your perspective. That's why people continue to date in spite of that little bit of mistrust/dislike.

 

[AntiVenom]

disagreeing with a woman

misogynist in the feminist dictionary: Any man who objects to/or calls women out on their shyt

Some women deserve to be mistreated, that's not misogyny.

Hell, by this definition most women are misogynists!

That word means absolutely nothing at this point.

I was once called a mysogonist on Twitter for saying nikki minaj is a no talent having joke of an artist. Women use "feminist" and "'mysogonist" anytime their backs are against the wall, it literally means nothing anymore.

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this the truth right here

Can you please stop equating racism and sexism

A hell of a deflection if i ever saw one. False equivalency like a mother fukker.

is it Misandry when women say all men are the same?

yes but they dont want to hear it. they want to complain while generalizing all men. But still want us to listen or take them seriously. Hypocritical sluts.

Thanks. Just wanted everyone to see your hypocrisy in full view. Cry about misogyny while believing in misandry.

Thats why I dont take their complaints about sexism seriously. These women are quick to shyt on men....but then want to holler when the reverse happens. This is a predominantly male forum. Not everything is going to be female friendly. If they dont like it they can always stop coming back. But we'd be stupid to tone things down for their sake when they wouldnt do the same in return. fukk em.

Let the "misogyny" continue.

 

[HoloGraphic]

I think the gender wars will end when everyone just comes to grips with the fact that EVERYONE, regardless of gender, is generally selfish and looking out for their own self-interest most of the time. Nine times out of ten that dude who treats women like shyt or that woman who takes advantage of men was once a "nice" person who got played by a member of the opposite sex, so their whole persona is really just a defense mechanism. But that's life. People go out of their way and deny their own self interest to be vulnerable or to submit to someone else, and they get played. I guess how you react to that and how you let that experience shape you is a testament to your true character. But that's a people thing, not a man or woman thing

Agreed. It's all about survival. We are animals. We are really just walking, talking reproductive organs/genitalia.