What type of father did you have?

Did you have a good dad or nah?


  • Total voters
    130

InDePickWest

Im Not American
Joined
Aug 9, 2013
Messages
7,060
Reputation
-7,055
Daps
15,659
Reppin
Toronto
Terrible! my father abused my mother so bad and attempted to kill her at one point(right in front of us). He raped my mother as well (we overheard this as it happened when we were children). They divorced and He then married a white woman with money and had a kid with her (one who I never see and tbh I don't want to see). He relentlessly beat and cheated on the white woman with black women and even got us caught up in this shyt (making us lie for him). Then when he left her he'd already took her to the cleaners and she was broke. He relentlessly pursued my mother all throughout those years with his white chick but she hated him by then. Then he marries this other woman and the first day we meet her he beats her right in front of us (in a moving fukking car). They also have a kid (who I never met). He beat her one day so bad and stabbed her and was sent to prison. By this time I was going to prom and I hadn't heard from him in years! I had to pay for my own prom dress and stuff but when the mfer was locked up he all of a sudden wanted to form a relationship with me. He was calling and writing me everyday and now I'm just over him. He missed too much of my life, I just turned 21. I've been molested, bullied, abused by people and I never had a dad that I could turn to to help me or protect me. As I said before he was terribleeeee.
Im really sorry to hear that. No offense but he was a peice of shyt. Probably hiding some dark demons. Glad your mom escaped that monster alive.
 

Spence

Superstar
Joined
Jul 14, 2015
Messages
18,759
Reputation
3,203
Daps
48,553
I had/have the best Dad looking back at my life. Every day I could remember he would do his best to make sure I had everything he never had as a kid (he grew up dirt shyt poor and put himself through school to become a lawyer running his own firm).
Ive got endless memories of playing catch, him coaching my baseball/basketball teams etc. He was and still is one of my best friends and I know I can always go to him for advice from an OG since he was just a nga from the hood until he met my mom in college. He taught me everything I needed to know about life, women, money etc. Could not have asked for it any better, especially seeing these horror stories about how Dads were never around or beat the shyt out their moms. :sadcam:
 

havoc

Superstar
Joined
Jun 29, 2012
Messages
11,097
Reputation
1,130
Daps
26,762
Reppin
Live your own life
Terrible! my father abused my mother so bad and attempted to kill her at one point(right in front of us). He raped my mother as well (we overheard this as it happened when we were children). They divorced and He then married a white woman with money and had a kid with her (one who I never see and tbh I don't want to see). He relentlessly beat and cheated on the white woman with black women and even got us caught up in this shyt (making us lie for him). Then when he left her he'd already took her to the cleaners and she was broke. He relentlessly pursued my mother all throughout those years with his white chick but she hated him by then. Then he marries this other woman and the first day we meet her he beats her right in front of us (in a moving fukking car). They also have a kid (who I never met). He beat her one day so bad and stabbed her and was sent to prison. By this time I was going to prom and I hadn't heard from him in years! I had to pay for my own prom dress and stuff but when the mfer was locked up he all of a sudden wanted to form a relationship with me. He was calling and writing me everyday and now I'm just over him. He missed too much of my life, I just turned 21. I've been molested, bullied, abused by people and I never had a dad that I could turn to to help me or protect me. As I said before he was terribleeeee.
Damn, that's fukk up.:damn: I sympathized with you sis. :to:
 

Anerdyblackguy

Knicks in 4
Supporter
Joined
Oct 19, 2015
Messages
65,480
Reputation
18,954
Daps
362,673
Damn, seeing these stories about bad/absent fathers makes me more grateful for mines. Sorry to hear about these stories.
 

FocusedDaily

Chi-town's Hero
Supporter
Joined
May 10, 2012
Messages
2,721
Reputation
595
Daps
8,548
Reppin
South-side Chi
Exceptional father.

Thanks Bro.

He grew up in the projects and didn't get to know his pops at all really til he was an adult.
I think that's what drove him to be there for us the way he was/is.

I didn't appreciate the lessons til I was older, but he made sure I learned them.:ufdup:


Sidenote, do any of yall call your parents by first name now that you're grown. I'm over 30 and I still feel weird calling him by his first name.
Is that weird ?:lupe:
 

Anerdyblackguy

Knicks in 4
Supporter
Joined
Oct 19, 2015
Messages
65,480
Reputation
18,954
Daps
362,673
Thanks Bro.

He grew up in the projects and didn't get to know his pops at all really til he was an adult.
I think that's what drove him to be there for us the way he was/is.

I didn't appreciate the lessons til I was older, but he made sure I learned them.:ufdup:


Sidenote, do any of yall call your parents by first name now that you're grown. I'm over 30 and I still feel weird calling him by his first name.
Is that weird ?:lupe:

Nah bro! I could imagine that now. My father giving me the " this n!gga" face; and I know for a fact my mother would smack the $hit out of me. No way fam!
 

rahji

I ain't never seen no talking winning nothing.
Joined
Aug 21, 2013
Messages
935
Reputation
420
Daps
1,351
Reppin
Glenlivet
This could be a fun game like what OP did. Talk about who you are and your life and see if we can guess.

EX: My pops is a creative dude who pops off at the mouth all the time and my mom lives a rich life off her kinda famous dad and then blew up from being thotty. Who am I?
 

Kwéyòl

Moon walking seeing moon people
Joined
Feb 28, 2015
Messages
5,133
Reputation
1,310
Daps
22,813
Reppin
St.Lucia,Dominica n St.Croix
I wish that happend to me.
:lupe: I had the latest nikes and Jordan's, ps1s, 4 ps2s (when it just dropped) cause I broke 3. Gold chains, cable box in my room, a pc in my room . And I went to the only private school on the island . Put that was only cause I was an only child up to that point I think
 
Top