What was the best romantic relationship you have ever had?

Crude

Superstar
Joined
Jun 13, 2019
Messages
12,380
Reputation
2,933
Daps
59,346
The one I currently am in with my wife.

She's a friend to me, but she's also humorous and doesnt take herself serious all the time.

Her ambition is second to none. I dont know a woman that works harder than her. We really dont have to many disagreements either.

I definitely out ran my coverage and by marrying.
 
Joined
May 21, 2012
Messages
33,983
Reputation
4,782
Daps
185,255
Reppin
NYC
Im black and I was dating this Taiwanese chick I met at my old job for almost 2 1/2 years. This was hands down the best girlfriend I ever had. She would bring me groceries without me asking. Rub my back and feet without my asking. Smart career driven chick but made sure I was taken care of. Of the sex was str8:banderas:. I never had a struggle nut with her. She was about a strong 6.5 without makeup and 7 body. She was thick for an Asian. Tamper waist and nice perky titz.

My absolute problem was I wish she was black. My problack side wouldnt allow me to move to the next step with her. I also would hear the snarky comments from black women about my relationship.

Now I'm with this fine azz black chick but she doesn't bring nearly half the qualities the Asian chick brought to the table.

I really miss my Asian ex.:to:

prime example of why you ultimately do what makes you happy
 

Koapa

Superstar
Joined
May 8, 2012
Messages
5,712
Reputation
850
Daps
31,833
Reppin
Arlington, Tx.
I'm as pro black as the next man and feel you on only wanting to move forward in life with a black woman but to throw away a almost 3 year relationship with a girl that treated you like a king only because she was Asian is dumb as fukk. Only thing that mattered shoulda been how you feel about her. fukk all the outside talk

I hear you man. That girl had the best blinders. She didnt care to see or hear that negative crap. But I heard everything. My ole mentor (60 year old guy) told me he understood my position but I would regret that decision as I got older.
 
Joined
Jul 14, 2013
Messages
157
Reputation
230
Daps
694
Reppin
NULL
I am in it now with my present wife- we are going on 22 years together( no cheating, no break-ups and make-ups, no craziness).
She has done so many things to prioritize me and our family. She cooks my favorite meals, she takes care of me when I am sick, she is my biggest fan. When I was finished undergrad, she drove from her job to mine to pick up and drop off my grad school application to the college ( since it was due that day).
I am a little older than many but I find it amusing when I see all this anti Black women and super GMB. Relationships are not inherently the problem. Choosing the wrong partner for the wrong type of relationship you want is the problem.
 

TLR Is Mental Poison

The Coli Is Not For You
Supporter
Joined
May 3, 2012
Messages
46,178
Reputation
7,482
Daps
105,797
Reppin
The Opposite Of Elliott Wilson's Mohawk
Im black and I was dating this Taiwanese chick I met at my old job for almost 2 1/2 years. This was hands down the best girlfriend I ever had. She would bring me groceries without me asking. Rub my back and feet without my asking. Smart career driven chick but made sure I was taken care of. Of the sex was str8:banderas:. I never had a struggle nut with her. She was about a strong 6.5 without makeup and 7 body. She was thick for an Asian. Tamper waist and nice perky titz.

My absolute problem was I wish she was black. My problack side wouldnt allow me to move to the next step with her. I also would hear the snarky comments from black women about my relationship.

Now I'm with this fine azz black chick but she doesn't bring nearly half the qualities the Asian chick brought to the table.

I really miss my Asian ex.:to:
The same people who were giving you the side eye with your Asian chick will find some other reason to talk shyt and hate if you are with a black woman

No different than a lot of the pro black brehs here. People just hide behind a cause to hate

As far as we know it we only get one life..... we gotta live it for ourselves

My best relationship so far is my marriage. 12 years strong and shyt only looks like it's gonna keep getting better
 

letti cook

Superstar
Joined
Nov 14, 2014
Messages
10,540
Reputation
4,108
Daps
53,269
my best relationship was with someone i kinda couldn't stand:francis:

that's how fukkED my love life is/has been :martin:

i quit :ehh:
 

Doctor Doom

Rest in peace, Akira Toriyama
Supporter
Joined
Sep 30, 2013
Messages
14,444
Reputation
2,898
Daps
44,005
Reppin
Latveria
I have to yet currently come across a woman that made me feel this way or happy.

:yeshrug:

Same. Had an ex that could have been something, then one day I realized that I didnt really love her like that and it was :manny:

Plus her mental issues became more and more prominent in conversation.
 

Koapa

Superstar
Joined
May 8, 2012
Messages
5,712
Reputation
850
Daps
31,833
Reppin
Arlington, Tx.
Same. Had an ex that could have been something, then one day I realized that I didnt really love her like that and it was :manny:

Plus her mental issues became more and more prominent in conversation.

BRUH This is the main issue Im having wit my current chick. Its very difficult being wit someone who has mental/emotional issues and wont seek the proper help. Its draining.
 

Doctor Doom

Rest in peace, Akira Toriyama
Supporter
Joined
Sep 30, 2013
Messages
14,444
Reputation
2,898
Daps
44,005
Reppin
Latveria
BRUH This is the main issue Im having wit my current chick. Its very difficult being wit someone who has mental/emotional issues and wont seek the proper help. Its draining.

I said it in the quick gems thread years ago, but if they ain't seeking help, you need to drop them. :manny:

Not your job to play psychiatrist imo. Then they wanna get mad when they go off and you just hit them with the :unimpressed:
 

Sterling Archer

Spider Mane
Supporter
Joined
May 16, 2012
Messages
35,880
Reputation
11,182
Daps
175,541
Reppin
Chicago
My ex fiance. Was the best relationship because I was at my best, she was at hers and we were excited to be together. Got cut short because she died so she is somewhat martyred as a saint in my eyes. Because it wasnt a relationship that was allowed to play out it may not count. So I guess that means my next relationship after her would be the best. I scrounged up all the emotion I had left after being broken by the previous relationship and when things were great in this one, it was great. But life (busy schedules) and bouts of severe depression from her childhood just wore us down after 3yrs. I had little energy or love to give for relationships after that but I met what I thought was a great girl and got involved. Probably shouldnt have because it started long distance and by the time we were local again, I had mentally checked out and we couldnt get on the same page for various reasons. We became much better friends. Valued the friendship significantly more than the relationship.
 
Last edited:

Sterling Archer

Spider Mane
Supporter
Joined
May 16, 2012
Messages
35,880
Reputation
11,182
Daps
175,541
Reppin
Chicago
Same. Had an ex that could have been something, then one day I realized that I didnt really love her like that and it was :manny:

Plus her mental issues became more and more prominent in conversation.
BRUH This is the main issue Im having wit my current chick. Its very difficult being wit someone who has mental/emotional issues and wont seek the proper help. Its draining.
Sounds like my second relationship:leostare:
 
Top