What was the story behind your last friendship that went sour?

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You guys ever notice the shady ways of a ''friend'' over time?...and suddenly it dawns on you like...why do I even fukk with you lol? :what:

That's what happened with me. Dude was just very selfish and could be grimy when his interest was threatened.

He crossed me a number of times but I let it slide.


The final straw was talking shyt about me to a girl I was courting out of jealousy (I know this cos I overheard him with my own ears). Gay ass nikka...she aint pay him no mind and i still hit.

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If you've ever met a true psychopath you know how good they are at lying and blending into their surroundings. I slowly started to notice that they were doing a lot of shady shyt and were responsible for some really fukked up stuff among our circle of friends but were good at covering their tracks/getting other people to think they were responsible for it.

We (our pretty big group of friends of maybe about 8 people) were hanging out having dinner without them one night, and I brought up their behavior and other people started to come clean that they noticed something was off about them too and were starting to suspect the same things.

It was like being in an abusive relationship with your friend...with all of us. This person was very manipulative, scheming, liar, straight up no remorse about anything. Multiple lies, identities to people. Discovered a lot of the friends they claimed to have went running in the other direction to get the fukk away from them after figuring it out.

shyt was real deep :damn:

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sounds exactly like my situation...
 

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Had a friend that was in a job so bad he would've been better off collecting unemployment, a guy I knew was trying to fill a job position so ridiculous that I was contemplating quitting my job to take it. He was trying to put his peoples on. Unfortunately I didn't have one of the important qualifications and I didn't really need the job, my friend had all the qualifications and would've been perfect for it so I get him the interview of the strength of my name. Dude has no car so when I go to pick him up, he's not there and he's not answering his phone. Later in the day I run into a dude we both know who with other dude when when I was on my way to scoop him. Said they were talking about me coming to pick dude up and dude knowingly vanished right after that.

All the other dudes,the same thing-tried to sell me out for some p*ssy. Its really a shame what nikka will do for a chance to fukk an average chick. Instead of us teaming up and gaming her from different angles so we all eat. They would rather slander your character to the jumpoff. They never learn that if you slander a dude to a chick and he doesn't slander you to her she's gonna lean towards him for your hoe like actions.
 

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Back in HS me & my brother had a little get together with a few females from school at his house. His folks were out of town. We invited this guy I had gotten really cool with. We'd been cool going on over a year, so I pretty much invited him into my circle. We'd been through some stuff and looked out for each other. Outside of my brother, dude was the only cat I felt I could call a friend. So it's me, my brother, and my boy. We invite over a few females from school and they come over about 5 deep. It got wild that night. People are drunk as hell. One of the girls was on the cheer leading squad with my gf and was the first to strip ass naked and get loose. I fooled around with the girls, danced with them, but didn't have sex. Me & my brother are having fun but my boy is acting scared to dance. Dude makes an attempt to get one back to a room but gets shut down. All in all, it was a fun night for everyone involved. Or so I thought.


So my boy is leaving and gets on the cell with his gf who is my girl's close associate. She's going to talk him home. Cool. Me and my brother pass out. I wake up to my phone ringing and my girl on the other line crying asking me what happened last night. Long story short, that jealous dweeb told his gf everything. She, in turn, told my girl. Me and my brother met up with him, his girl, and my gf at the mall. On the way I was threatening this guys life if he didn't find a way to fix this.

He blamed him squealing on the alcohol, but in reality it was truly the fact dude was angry he didn't get any play that night or any other time we went anywhere. He sat on the couch and trembled anytime he saw a titty. And he wasn't some noble knight. Son had attempted dirt more times than I care to count, he could just never seal the deal because he was awkward as hell. That envy took over in the heat of passion, but I never saw it coming.


He smoothed it over and told her it was a misunderstanding. I convinced my gf that we all just drunk and danced. No nudity or anything. She didn't argue or fight. I don't recall anything but tears. The look in her eye had my soul :to: She even called the chick on her squad and begged for confirmation but she denied everything. I know she didn't buy it, but pushed it out of her mind. 'Till this day that clown is dead to me.
 

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Back in HS me & my brother had a little get together with a few females from school at his house. His folks were out of town. We invited this guy I had gotten really cool with. We'd been cool going on over a year, so I pretty much invited him into my circle. We'd been through some stuff and looked out for each other. Outside of my brother, dude was the only cat I felt I could call a friend. So it's me, my brother, and my boy. We invite over a few females from school and they come over about 5 deep. It got wild that night. People are drunk as hell. One of the girls was on the cheer leading squad with my gf and was the first to strip ass naked and get loose. I fooled around with the girls, danced with them, but didn't have sex. Me & my brother are having fun but my boy is acting scared to dance. Dude makes an attempt to get one back to a room but gets shut down. All in all, it was a fun night for everyone involved. Or so I thought.


So my boy is leaving and gets on the cell with his gf who is my girl's close associate. She's going to talk him home. Cool. Me and my brother pass out. I wake up to my phone ringing and my girl on the other line crying asking me what happened last night. Long story short, that jealous dweeb told his gf everything. She, in turn, told my girl. Me and my brother met up with him, his girl, and my gf at the mall. On the way I was threatening this guys life if he didn't find a way to fix this.

He blamed him squealing on the alcohol, but in reality it was truly the fact dude was angry he didn't get any play that night or any other time we went anywhere. He sat on the couch and trembled anytime he saw a titty. And he wasn't some noble knight. Son had attempted dirt more times than I care to count, he could just never seal the deal because he was awkward as hell. That envy took over in the heat of passion, but I never saw it coming.


He smoothed it over and told her it was a misunderstanding. I convinced my gf that we all just drunk and danced. No nudity or anything. She didn't argue or fight. I don't recall anything but tears. The look in her eye had my soul :to: She even called the chick on her squad and begged for confirmation but she denied everything. I know she didn't buy it, but pushed it out of her mind. 'Till this day that clown is dead to me.

Ok so now your girl aint here what really happened that night? :shaq:
 

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She wasn't as good a friend to me as I was to her.

If we were supposed to meet at 5, she'll show up at 7. No call. No text.
When we make plans, she'll call me 5min BEFORE I'm walking out the door, to tell me she's canceling.
She would cancel on me to do things with someone else, and if they canceled, she'd try to call me back.

I was always on time, always there when she needs me, and always a shoulder to cry on. I was getting that in return so I cut her off.

She stays trying to call/text me and add me on fb. I just ignore her.
 

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I just get tired of dealing with them...at least that's how my last few friendships ended. :yeshrug:.

At this point I have no friends trill shyt. Only calls I get daily are from my fiance and family. I don't even feel like I'm missing out on anything either...oh well, fukk em.
 

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Ok so now your girl aint here what really happened that night? :shaq:

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Nothing too foul breh. Honestly. I kissed two of the broads and almost got oral from one, but it was short lived. My brother was trying to entertain FOUR females alone because the other clown was sweating bullets because of anxiety. Time she was getting started two females were busting through the back door calling the chick. :laugh:

I didn't technically lie to her. :mjpls: There was no sex.
 

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Nothing too foul breh. Honestly. I kissed two of the broads and almost got oral from one, but it was short lived. My brother was trying to entertain FOUR females alone because the other clown was sweating bullets because of anxiety. Time she was getting started two females were busting through the back door calling the chick. :laugh:

I didn't technically didn't lie to her. :mjpls: There was no sex.

Dont worry breh I aint gonna tell her like the other dude :mjpls:
 

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I just get tired of dealing with them...at least that's how my last few friendships ended. :yeshrug:.

At this point I have no friends trill shyt. Only calls I get daily are from my fiance and family. I don't even feel like I'm missing out on anything either...oh well, fukk em.

[ame=http://youtu.be/wavqdWIGLqo]Trae The Truth: Do bad on my own - YouTube[/ame]

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people change, it was foolish for me to think that knowing someone when you're both 10 years old would be the same as when you're both 24 years old.

and at the end of the day, you realize that no one gives a damn about anyone but themselves. :yeshrug:
 

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I was in the movies(insidious...) with my girl and a nikka wanted to come to my apartment to print a paper for school. I didn't answer the phone, and for some reason he said fukk it and didn't go to class. nikka ended up failing that class and when the military is paying for school you can't fail any classes. So they stopped paying for his school and made him pay back everything. He blamed me for basically ruining his life.

He was talking slick shyt about me on facebook and my girl aired him out telling him he stupid for failing over a paper that he could have emailed or printed at school using one of the hundred printers on campus. Been tight with him since I was 12, and after that never talked to him again. :yeshrug:
 

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My homie called me one day and asked what I was doing I said chilling nikka wassup with you? He said mane just taking a bath.... I hung up never spoke to him again. That made me uncomfortable. No duck tails.
 
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