What was the story behind your last friendship that went sour?

[-G$-]

said friend didn't understand how/why i was moving on from the single/partying/clubbing/bottle service life to the engaged/homeowner/starting a family life. threw a bunch of accusations at me as if me maturing and becoming an adult was somehow a backhanded way of me leaving him behind. he's not a bad dude, just total only child syndrome and doesn't do well when he's not the primary focus of a friendship. ironic thing is he is now also married, owns a house in the burbs, probably trying to have a kid too etc... i still run into him every here and there thru mutual friends and we're cordial but back in the day we were pretty tight,

can't think of one other person i've ever called a very good friend that i don't still speak w, even only on occasion.

 

[john goodman]

My best friend from childhood is doing heroin in jersey somewhere

I would still answer his calls but can't say we're close anymore... Really a shame

 

[LastEmperor2k2]

An argument with the dudes girlfriend.

She disrespected me and thought it was cool to do so.

 

[JasonSJackson]

its funny how everybody telling the story is the victim.....

id bet if the other person was telling the story they'd be the victim in it to

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

gave my boy who was struggling and hussling a job hook up(first mistake)

he stops showing up and abandons the position and the manager looking at me like where is your boy, you vouched for him

he got busted slangin in school and told people I was selling with him when all I did was help him unload what he had so he could go legit. he was implicating me.

I got into a fight because of his garbage product tryna defend him

we went out to eat with a group of our peoples and he slipped some money off the table and I happened to be the only one that caught it. that was the last draw, we was all from nothing and struggling so we never tripped about looking out for each other. for him to take from us eventhough we would have gave him was unforgivable and it really opened my eyes to his snake nature.

this all transpired in a matter of weeks/months maybe. he the only nikka to ever be ex-communicated from my crew. that nikka was sending hoes at me and my boys to ask why we did HIM DIRTY.

 

[Blown Moon]

its funny how everybody telling the story is the victim.....

id bet if the other person was telling the story they'd be the victim in it to

I have a friend who damn near raised his little sister and he's Tony Montana protective over her. When I was 24 and his sister 18 we had a 3-4 month fling she stopped it after she got a little boyfriend, who she's still with now. If he ever finds out, its gonna be friendship over and I'm probably going to have to fight this man. If that ever happens it will be my fault.

I doubt he finds out though

 

[Mantle Drunk]

I really never had a friendship end on a sour note just more so over time went our seperate ways.

But the one time I guess ended on sour note was 2002 or 2003 my friend was having a party and I was hanging out with another friend that day so I was like fukk it theres a party tonight come with me so he agreed. My other friend really didn't want him to go but I pushed the issue and he finally gave me the ok to bring him. He ends up getting drunk and causing a scene crying about how he's depressed about breaking up with his girl. Everyone there was like I told you not to bring him but whatever it was cool no big deal.

The very next night there was a party he went to that I found out about the next day and I was only 18-19 at the time I was upset that he wouldn't think to invite me after what I did the night before and I was like fukk it I'm not talking to this motherfukker no more. We seen each other through friends a couple of times after that said whats up and thats about it. Never hungout 1 on 1 ever again. It was kind of silly to hold that against him to the point of not talking to him anymore but I was young and it was really only half the story.

He was an a$$hole and just a weird person in general. If you were like yo were going to the beach want to come he would say no and then go to a different beach by himself just weird shyt he would pull. It felt like he just dealt with us to pass the time but he really was a loner so he didn't put to much stock into any of his friendships because he really didn't care about anyone anyway. So that just added to the reason that I cut him off.

 

[amahle]

I grew up with 5 dudes. My brother and my sisters were a decade older than me, so i basically felt like an only child. These nikkas became my brothers. We ran everywhere together. That's why it hurt a lil bit when we all started going our own way. We 24-25 years old now........so nikkas making moves. I'm in college (went back late), one of them in the army, another one wifed some broad with a kid, one drives trucks, one graduated college & got a job, and the last one moved to FL and is having a baby soon.



Now, the one that wifed the broad with a kid. He did that two years ago. He was 22 I think then. We told him not to do it. The bytch was average as fukk, almost in her 30s (she 30 somethin now), had an attitude problem. Was an all around bytch. Out of all the girls he dated, they all were cool to hang around. We'd talk like she was a part of the crew. But, this bytch It was obvious she aint like being around us, and she tried to limit his time around us. The broad was 29, 30 years old with a 7 year old daughter. I guess, she had her fun already and felt we were immature. If he'd come out, she'd blow up his phone and he basically would go home to avoid an argument I remember me & one of the others, lets call him *Greg* saying we'd have him home by 12. She said cool Bruh....she was blowing this nikka's phone up by 9:45, saying when you coming home We hated that bytch We aint seen that dude for months and she couldn't let us have one night. She knew we all across the country in different places and we only get to meet up a few times a year, and she couldn't give that nikka one fukking night




Eventually, we stopped fukking with him Everytime we call you, you got an excuse why you can't come out or if you come out, you got to leave two hours in. nikka 25 years old, living like an old married fart. Nobody told this nikka to wife up some broad in her 30s. After all five of us cut dude off, he started complaining that nobody included him in our plans anymore

Sounds like u wanted to date this n1gga breh....

 

[International Playa]

Now......how many of yall were the "slimy ass friend"?

I set up my childhood best friend to get beaten up on the school playgrounds by someone who hated him in middle school, after 10+ years, he still dont know I set it up

I felt bad for years tho


in the end we broke up because we live in different parts of the country, we always make promises to meet up n hang out, nothing materializes out of it tho, sum friendships are for a season, sum for life

 

[Battle Beast]

Are they jealous of the amount you have coming in or have people not paid back owed money or something like that?

Peopl owe me money and still trying to get into my pockets.

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[EffedUp]

I've never really had any friendship go sour. I just stopped fukkin' with a lot of people be it my own stubbornness or they were holding me back.

 

[Malik]

Sounds like u wanted to date this n1gga breh....

So your girl stopped you from hanging with your friends too, huh?

"Its either them or me" ass nikka

 

[Blown Moon]

Peopl owe me money and still trying to get into my pockets.

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Sounds like certain family members I have. smh

 

[mr x]

I had eight partners growin up, eight turned to seven, seven turned to six nikkaz, got two in heaven. Six of us, holdin it, now it's five rollin thick. The sixth one's parole flipped; five nikkaz, went to fo' quick when he went O.T., college life, converted into gangbangin. Four nikkaz still hangin, years passed and slang changin. Three of us now, fourth nikka ain't around. We all thought he was real He did the snake shyt, fake shyt, beat his ass down, yo his mouth could've got us all wasted, what a fukkin clown. All I got left in the end is two of my best friends. And we all goin out, to the death for these ends.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

it was with another musician. we got into a fight about playing some song. thing was he didn't really know the chord changes to the song and the other people in the band had never heard the song so i didn't want to play it. i knew the song but the rhythm section had never heard it. it seemed ridiculous to have people up there trying to play a song they'd never heard and considering the fact he didn't even really know the chord changes either, it seemed even more absurd. i remember i basically told him i'm not going to play a song i don't know in front of a bunch of people and sound like shyt, and i sat down and told him if he wants to play the song, he should go and play the song. ever since that time shyt got sour between us. that was a couple of years ago though. i just didn't really care for the way he was trying to get us to do the song. if i don't want to play something, i'm not going to. plus, i hate looking like some unprofessional amateur when i play. while you should take chances and play songs you don't know on occasion, there's a difference between taking chances on stage and just making a bad decision, i felt like playing that song was a terrible idea. i think he really got mad because instead of just playing it, i sat my ass down and let him run the show...