I learned early. It was 2005, FT Lee, VA. At my school after my basic training in the Army. To paint a picture for those who haven’t signed up. You are 17-20. Away from home for the first time. Scared, tired, yearning to talk to the opposite sex. You can’t because it’s fraternizing (GI were freaking in basic, how? Idk). You finally get some freedom the last 4 days after 13 weeks of BS.
Women’s body transform into peak form. Baby fat is lost, a touch of muscle is gained, ass becomes phat due to the sculpting from daily exercises. If you were f**king on the regular before, you missed out for 13 weeks. Also, as soon as you finish your 13 weeks, you have another school that can be from anywhere 5-52 weeks.
No end in sight. Still have the fraternization policy. Finally after 4-6 more weeks, you get to be free. You get a weekend pass. You go 4 plus months until you get to touch the opposite sex.
My first four weeks, women were trying to get chosen. Some were choosing me to get it in. I run into this one in a few classes ahead of me. She was going to graduate the week after my first pass. She stepped up and told me what she wanted. I’m 19 with less than 10 bodies under my belt so I’m still knocking down anything I can get my hands on.
We smashed Friday. I’m holding hands Saturday at
Walmart. She left our crew early to “handle some business”. I get back to formation Sunday and she got married. I saw dude and everything.
Before all of that, I had a girl lined up. We spent 3 weeks courting each other. She was grown with kids. Honduran and Guatemalan. Her box shape had some curves.

I’m thinking we spending the weekend together. She curved me the day before. Come to find out, the drill Sargent was knocking her down. They had soldiers going to pick up the dry cleaned uniforms. She was always chosen and they would dip off to smash. She had me thinking I had a chance.