What would you do if girlfriend decides to be celibate.

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So you been smashing your girl for a year all of a sudden she tells you she wants to try and stop having sex because you don't take her serious and arent ready to put a ring on it yet.

What would you do?

Unless she converted to a religion it would be bushes. The main reason she is probably telling you this is she prob lost that "feeling" "tingles" for you. I call this the dump her before she dumps you mode. When a woman who has been giving you intimacy and then pulls it away she's withdrawing from the relationship she will tell you all this bla bla, but if trey songz or will smith or whoever she has the :noah: for, invited her to vip she'd give up the drawls the same night, or when you break up and shes in a new relationship two weeks later she'll be back to opening her legs.
 

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You pretty much have to throw her in the bushes because you've lost your girl whether you realize it now or later.

She's either

-checked out of the relationship & is trying to withdraw from you (see the end of Wolf of Wallstreet when shorty was pretty much turning down Leonardo's sexual advances & when he did fukk she just laid there lol)

-she's cheating

or

-she's trying to use it as a tool to get something from you


or all three.


I've been through the first with an Ex and I've been the guy a girl was cheating with.......A girl tells you she wants to be celibate and she might as well be telling you she's not really fukking with you anymore.

didnt see this but yep

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I'd suddenly decide I want to be single.

I'm always straight up with women. like my current girl now.

she knows we're not getting married. ever. so if she ever tried to try something to test me like celibacy or some other bullshyt...

:camby:
 

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Bushes.

If she has any kind of issue she should just discuss it with me. Trying to force my hand in the relationship by cutting me off sex is manipulative and sets a real bad precedent. I pretty much gotta cut her off out of principle. If she pulls this shyt a year into the relationship, lord knows what she'd pull if we were to actually get married and she has control over not just her p*ssy, but my money and kids.

She'd actually be doing me a huge favor. :whew:
 

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Bushes.

If she has any kind of issue she should just discuss it with me. Trying to force my hand in the relationship by cutting me off sex is manipulative and sets a real bad precedent. I pretty much gotta cut her off out of principle. If she pulls this shyt a year into the relationship, lord knows what she'd pull if we were to actually get married and she has control over not just her p*ssy, but my money and kids.

She'd actually be doing me a huge favor. :whew:

@a murda

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/my-wife-turned-into-a-dead-fish.24779/
 

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You give up too quickly. Every relationship goes through things, can't expect everything to be rosy all the time. You know it's worth it and you love one another deeply when you can work through issues like these.
No. I don't think I give up too quickly.
I'm a very reasonable man. But I'm replying to the scenario. If I'm dating a woman for a year and she thinks it's just about sex, well, why hasn't she spoken up about it sooner? And what would cutting off the sex do?

Frankly, if I was with a woman for a whole year and it was only about sex, it'd be obvious what the deal was anyway. And cutting ties would be the way to go.

I don't think if even be in that kind of a relationship. I'm not really about jump offs like that.
 

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No. I don't think I give up too quickly.
I'm a very reasonable man. But I'm replying to the scenario. If I'm dating a woman for a year and she thinks it's just about sex, well, why hasn't she spoken up about it sooner? And what would cutting off the sex do?

Frankly, if I was with a woman for a whole year and it was only about sex, it'd be obvious what the deal was anyway. And cutting ties would be the way to go.

I don't think if even be in that kind of a relationship. I'm not really about jump offs like that.

Cutting sex would be piece of mind for her to no that your in it for her and not her vagina
 

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I think there was some weird formatting there @SNG

I see what you're saying. But any girl that I date, I'd be in it for her and not just the sex.
I'm too old to be obsessed with sleeping around. Or maybe not too old. It's just not what I'm about.
 

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What I would wanna know, is if she sellin' her bits, who in the hell is she sellin' 'em to???
 
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