what would you do if you have a gay son?

What would you do if your son came out gay?


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Steve Piffler

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I won't sit here and pretend that I don't instinctively :scusthov: inside my head when I see 2 men loved up or :snoop: sometimes until a gay kiss or love scene ( between males) is finished; I can't lie, it's like a natural reflex because the shyt still is, for lack of a better term, "off ", to me :yeshrug:


With that said, I wouldn't get in the way of my son being himself :ehh:. If you can't be ride or die for your own seed, then don't get mad when they disown you in old age or sickness. You gotta realize that it's not your life to live. If you have any sort of balls or control over your own life, I'm sure you've had to express the same sentiment to your own parents at least once when you went against the grain :ld:


Funny tho, for alot of people who say they'd disown them, I bet when someone decides to talk wrong about them or if you see someone disrespecting them, advocating for their him to be murdered or "wiped from the earth", or if they get hurt, you would be there to defend them with no fukks given :mjpls:


this....i'm weirded out by gay men, but i can't toss my son in the bushes if he is gay. lucky for me, both of my sons have confirmed that they like chicks, so this literally doesn't apply to me. :obama::heh:
 
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It would have been interesting to know which of these respondents currently have kids...I think you're whole perspective changes when you have kids.
 

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I wouldn't care if my kids were gay/lesbian. What they decide to do with their SEX life is none of my business.

BUT, all I ask is that they be a MAN or a WOMAN about it. Idk what I'd do if I had a flamboyantly gay son or a hard ass daughter. I'd feel like me and my wife did something to mess them up mentally. I'm sure I'd love them, but it'd be a big learning process, especially for a flamboyantly gay son.
 

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shyt was actually pretty sad tho. my cousin became depressed and suicidal during his late teens. he had a lot of emotional issues because of this. this is why i support gay rights. my cousin was born in DR like me (we are a week apart) and our families are very narrow minded and stuck in the old ways. so he was picked on and bullied a lot by all of us (yes me too). he was scarred by this but it ended up making him stronger. i admire him honestly because he has finally accepted who he is and lives his life happily and he is literally one of the nicest guys i know. he posted something on instagram the other day about how he forgives his mom and his dad and his aunts and uncles for all that emotional trauma but thanked them at the same time cause it made him who he is and i just had to :salute:.

i mean damn for your own father, every little boy's first hero, to tell you that u aint shyt and to get lost and die because of something u have no control over, brehs thats tougher than anything anybody these days has to go thru. your own family bullying u :wow:. its rough man and i feel for him.

a lot of you are saying u would disown them but ya must not have kids yet so i aint mad at ya. i dont have kids either but i cant imagine throwing my baby bro to the bushes because he tells me he is gay. if anything, knowing how hard life is going to be for somebody i love, i will be there for him even more. i may not necessarily like that he is gay, but that doesnt matter. love is supposed to be unconditional.
my cousin is going through the same shyt... he was all emotional about it since we where kids... I swear this nikka came out the womb as a fakkit ass bytch.

anyway, I was on that bushes shyt til I had sons.


But now I have enough sons that it wouldn't matter. :obama:
He just couldn't Get busted in the face, be the female in the relationship, talk with a twang, and he would have to be financially successful so that I can be proud of him- since I can't be proud of his behaviors.
 

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I wouldn't be happy about it at first knowin that my nikka ain't slayin bytchez like his daddy. And I would feel the thought of my son gettin his back blown out by a nikka from the I would feel I did a terrible job as a father. But if that's what he likes I'd have to pray to god to help me through it. That would really suck to be honest. I'd come around eventually but it would be a slow process.
 

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id immediately take the little fakkit to an exorcist and exorcise that gay demon right out of him...im dead serious
 

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I wouldn't be happy about it at first knowin that my nikka ain't slayin bytchez like his daddy. And I would feel the thought of my son gettin his back blown out by a nikka from the I would feel I did a terrible job as a father. But if that's what he likes I'd have to pray to god to help me through it. That would really suck to be honest. I'd come around eventually but it would be a slow process.

I bet you god wouldn't help u do n ething.
 

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Yeah and I never noticed God doing much of anything.

True I respect what you believe. I believe in the higher power and have faith in things so I would expect you to repect my individual beilef even tho it doesn't correlate to yours.
 
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