What Would You Do In This Situation?

Dave24

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This is a hypothetical situation.

Say you aren't attractive to women in general because they consider you too nice, a square, and you are overweight.

You are someone looking for love/relationship and not casual sex. You don't have high standards either. You shoot your shot with multiple women but they all turn you down and reject you. You pour your heart out to several women that you feel deeply for and they reject you as well.

So, you are in your late 20s and have never been in a relationship up to this point.



Now, 3- 5 years later you end up becoming a famous and wealthy(millionaire) singer and/or movie star.



Women flock to you and want to be with you. All the women who rejected you come to you and now want you. The women you poured your heart out to you want to be with you.

Your mind frame is that you still want to be in a relationship. Do you get in a relationship with any of the women who turned you away years ago or do you bush them?

If you bush them, who do you try to get in a relationship with considering you have never been in one? Who do you trust to love you for you at this point?



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This is a hypothetical situation.

Say you aren't attractive to women in general because they consider you too nice, a square, and you are overweight.

You are someone looking for love/relationship and not casual sex. You don't have high standards either. You shoot your shot with multiple women but they all turn you down and reject you. You pour your heart out to several women that you feel deeply for and they reject you as well.

So, you are in your late 20s and have never been in a relationship up to this point.



Now, 3- 5 years later you end up becoming a famous and wealthy(millionaire) singer and/or movie star.



Women flock to you and want to be with you. All the women who rejected you come to you and now want you. The women you poured your heart out to you want to be with you.

Your mind frame is that you still want to be in a relationship. Do you get in a relationship with any of the women who turned you away years ago or do you bush them?

No, friendzone them at the most, but really you should stay away from those types

If you bush them, who do you try to get in a relationship with considering you have never been in one? Who do you trust to love you for you at this point?

Get involved in your favorite hobbies around people with similar wealth (but little to no fame). You will eventually run into women with similar interest.

Or...

Embrace the fact that you may never find true love, become comfortable without it, use your wealth and fame to help the less fortunate. The right woman will find you while you're busy saving the world.

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Theoretically, the pool of people (women) you're exposed to will widen with your new lifestyle. I'm assuming you're operating with the idea that you were so into one of those women that curved you, that with the change in lifestyle and experiences that you can have better luck with these particular women.

Nominally, you are now "better" than you were when these women rejected you. The thing about being "better" is realizing you can do "better". The only reason to reach back to your former sensibilities is to placate your ego. Otherwise, why? You should be able to find better/different partnerships than the ones from your not-so-glory years.
 

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Eh...

Thot Quote: If u couldn't handle me at my worst u don't deserve me at my best....

Would smash em just to get it out my system then hit em with the "I'm busy" audible when they wanted to kick it....

Relationships with ppl that showed u they true colors when they thought u couldn't do nothing for them:patrice:....not in Sparta bruh...
 

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The game is in you,not on you. So i mean even with the money and u hypothetically decide to get with one of these chicks and decide to pursue a relationship,eventually who u are at the core will be expose.


From there she will either cheat,plan to taker ur money(as much as she can) or both.:francis:

How many stories have u heard of women cheating on their so called succesful and rich husbands with a guy that in theory is a downgrade?:yeshrug: something about the other guy without the money makes her go:takedat::wow: so change the inside first , which is easier said than done:mjcry:
 

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It takes time to figure out people yo make sure they truely like you & not your fame or money so i would move cautiously & stay strapped . Move opposite of @skeetsinternal & guard yo nut , never let them see it .
 

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You asking a guy that is at 0 to turn into Patrice O’neal, he’s probably going to get took by them women because he will feel like he has to buy their love, and they will finesse the fukk out of him until she get comfortable and play the lick sloppily and even then he may be so whipped that he goes with it. He would need a handler to hip him, and get that inner killah
 
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