What y'all think about open Relationships??? Can they work??

[bigrodthe1]

What's up Coli fam...I was just talking to my sons mother. We were discussing us living together in an attempt to get my Son head together and they relocating to MI from DC. We both felt that we don't want to be constrained to a full blown relationship at this time but we are willing to knock some boots She's a strong woman and I'm a strong man. I've never dealt with an open relationship...can they work

 

[Poitier]

nah

 

[bigrodthe1]

nah

why not

 

[beanz]

nope. even less if you have a kid together.

u telling me u think u gonna be ok with staying home and babysitting while she goes out and gets her back blown out, then comes home and tells u she too tired for sex?

huh?


huh?




HUH?!




didnt think so

 

[Raava]

Not for an extended period of time. Feels will be caught, probably already there.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

What's up Coli fam...I was just talking to my sons mother. We were discussing us living together in an attempt to get my Son head together and they relocating to MI from DC. We both felt that we don't want to be constrained to a full blown relationship at this time but we are willing to knock some boots She's a strong woman and I'm a strong man. I've never dealt with an open relationship...can they work

What you're talking about here isn't an open relationship. If all you're doing is living together than that's just cohabitation

 

[Canon]

i could not do an open relationship

 

[Michael's Black Son]

No

 

[Rawtid]

Just Be single.

 

[bigrodthe1]

Not for an extended period of time. Feels will be caught, probably already there.

Thanks for the reply. Well in my case I don't know. My situation is I met my sons mother at a time I was already in a relationship but separated and she was a few years younger than I. We messed around a few times and she ended up pregnant where I just KNEW it wasn't mine. Did the paternity test and sure enough he was. Ended up paying a lot of child support but anyway over time we still been cool but I moved back to Detroit. Of late my son whom is now a teenager has become REALLY rebellious towards his Mom and she has stated it might be best for him to come stay with me. She THEN said that she was wanting to relocate and Michigan might not be a bad idea. She suggested we could have an open relationship because over time we both have had a bunch of shytty relationships and neither of us want to jump into anything serious any time soon.

 

[Meadow]

With proper communication, honesty and clear lines drawn... potentially, for a short period of time.

 

[Meadow]

Thanks for the reply. Well in my case I don't know. My situation is I met my sons mother at a time I was already in a relationship but separated and she was a few years younger than I. We messed around a few times and she ended up pregnant where I just KNEW it wasn't mine. Did the paternity test and sure enough he was. Ended up paying a lot of child support but anyway over time we still been cool but I moved back to Detroit. Of late my son whom is now a teenager has become REALLY rebellious towards his Mom and she has stated it might be best for him to come stay with me. She THEN said that she was wanting to relocate and Michigan might not be a bad idea. She suggested we could have an open relationship because over time we both have had a bunch of shytty relationships and neither of us want to jump into anything serious any time soon.

Is the goal to eventually be together in a committed relationship?

 

[bigrodthe1]

Is the goal to eventually be together in a committed relationship?

I think in my situation the immediate goal is to get our Son together.

 

[Raava]

Thanks for the reply. Well in my case I don't know. My situation is I met my sons mother at a time I was already in a relationship but separated and she was a few years younger than I. We messed around a few times and she ended up pregnant where I just KNEW it wasn't mine. Did the paternity test and sure enough he was. Ended up paying a lot of child support but anyway over time we still been cool but I moved back to Detroit. Of late my son whom is now a teenager has become REALLY rebellious towards his Mom and she has stated it might be best for him to come stay with me. She THEN said that she was wanting to relocate and Michigan might not be a bad idea. She suggested we could have an open relationship because over time we both have had a bunch of shytty relationships and neither of us want to jump into anything serious any time soon.

I don't see the purpose of the open relationship here. Is this for your son or her? I could understand if she was trying to stay with your a short while until she stabled herself (which I think is a bad idea) but other than that, what is the point? How do you think that will affect your son? No matter how old a child gets they want to see their parents together. With him already going through this stage do you think that will really be good for him?

 

[The ADD]

That's not an open relationship. Y'all would be just fuccing