What's An Acceptable Number Of Sexual Parters For A 21-Year Old Girl To Have?

whats an accpetable number of sexual partners for a 21 year old girl?

  • bytch better be virginal! I don't want no sloppy twentieths and shyt..:scusthov:

    Votes: 28 22.0%
  • under 10 is fine :gladbron:

    Votes: 63 49.6%
  • under 30 is acceptable..but i'm staying strapped up :whoo:

    Votes: 4 3.1%
  • I don't care if she banged over 50 dudes. if im feelin her then sexual history is irrelevant :noah:

    Votes: 7 5.5%
  • i'm not a prude..but damn there comes a point when I'd fear for my health breh

    Votes: 16 12.6%
  • yall need to get out of this backwards mindset and stop putting arbitrary constraints on women :wtb:

    Votes: 9 7.1%

  • Total voters
    127
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Its easy for an average women to sleep with a bunch of average nikkas, in fact, it wouldn't take any skill or cunning at all, all they'd have to do is say yes and spread they sht, hence why across most traditions, nations, cultures, e.t.c. promiscuous women fail to garner any respect and are labeled low value/easy.

On the other hand, for an average man to sleep around with a bunch of average chicks it takes a good amount of social skills and cunning (despite what the resident coli/duckburg playas say) because most women (even the ugly ones) are naturally very selective when choosing dudes to fck with, hence why in most traditions, nations, cultures e.t.c. promiscuous men are labeled as "ladies men" "players" and are typically respected.

So to answer your question (although it wasn't for me); no i wouldn't hold my self to the same promiscuity standard as a female, because the standard used for them isnt meant for me.

There's nothing logical about this, I don't know why men repeat it so much. The very fact that its as easy as it is for women is the reason why women's numbers are generally higher. Its a cause and effect thing.

But when men have a lot of numbers, to me it shows a serious character flaw. That means they are actively out there soliciting and trying their hardest to bed as many women as possible. That could signify insecurity or downright untrustworthiness in their character (therefore, not relationship material or worth taking seriously).

As far as evolutionary psychology goes, I really hate when people speak about things they have no idea about. In terms of evolutionary psychology it has always been advantageous for females to have multiple partners, always. The same for men. The only difference in evolution is that men have to care more about women's partners because of the issue of paternity. A woman never has a concern about knowing what child is hers so she is less invested in policing a man's sexuality as a man is a woman's (because he has to be).
 

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But yes, 30 by 21 is a lot, but it always depends on the person. For me, I'm not out there like that so I don't want my man to be. But if you've had a lot, you'll be a little more compatible mentality wise, so I don't see why it'd be a problem :manny:
 
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There's nothing logical about this, I don't know why men repeat it so much. The very fact that its as easy as it is for women is the reason why women's numbers are generally higher. Its a cause and effect thing.

But when men have a lot of numbers, to me it shows a serious character flaw. That means they are actively out there soliciting and trying their hardest to bed as many women as possible. That could signify insecurity or downright untrustworthiness in their character (therefore, not relationship material or worth taking seriously).

As far as evolutionary psychology goes, I really hate when people speak about things they have no idea about. In terms of evolutionary psychology it has always been advantageous for females to have multiple partners, always. The same for men. The only difference in evolution is that men have to care more about women's partners because of the issue of paternity. A woman never has a concern about knowing what child is hers so she is less invested in policing a man's sexuality as a man is a woman's (because he has to be).

nah this logic is flawed.
 

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first of all, what is the difference between an easy ass bytch and a REALLY GOOD LOOKING denzel/pitt type? they both can get sex EASY


the fact is that the denzel/pitt type would be applauded for being faithful. same thing with good (looking) girls. they are applauded for being faithful.

restraint is a desired trait. period.
 

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Any number above two partners for a woman who is only 21 is disgusting, period.

lmaoooo

nikkas who think like this be the same nikkas walking around married to the bytch who was known for lettin nikkas run trains on her in highschool lmaooo

you the type of nygga to ask a female how many sexual partners she had and actually believe the answer or worse beleive a female when she tells you your the best she ever had (smae thing she said to all 20 other guys lmaooo)


nikkas be naive as hell
 

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lmaoooo

nikkas who think like this be the same nikkas walking around married to the bytch who was known for lettin nikkas run trains on her in highschool lmaooo

you the type of nygga to ask a female how many sexual partners she had and actually believe the answer or worse beleive a female when she tells you your the best she ever had (smae thing she said to all 20 other guys lmaooo)


nikkas be naive as hell

I fly private jets, drive a rolls royce, own 20 hot tubs and drink spring water from the private stream that flows through my living room everday B.... :umad:


Go make yourself useful and run to the store and go grab me a grape soda and a rice and beans platter chump change.

#Dealwithit


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There's nothing logical about this, I don't know why men repeat it so much. The very fact that its as easy as it is for women is the reason why women's numbers are generally higher. Its a cause and effect thing.

But when men have a lot of numbers, to me it shows a serious character flaw. That means they are actively out there soliciting and trying their hardest to bed as many women as possible. That could signify insecurity or downright untrustworthiness in their character (therefore, not relationship material or worth taking seriously).

As far as evolutionary psychology goes, I really hate when people speak about things they have no idea about. In terms of evolutionary psychology it has always been advantageous for females to have multiple partners, always. The same for men. The only difference in evolution is that men have to care more about women's partners because of the issue of paternity. A woman never has a concern about knowing what child is hers so she is less invested in policing a man's sexuality as a man is a woman's (because he has to be).

  1. Women's numbers CAN'T be higher if they're being averaged out.
  2. There are MANY reasons people have sex with one another. Sometimes I am really feeling someone. I have a powerful chemistry with a woman and I really want to have sex with her. Why shame a man for his sexual appetite? Why immediately attribute it to some sort of character flaw when it might just be him satisfying banal desires?
  3. Sometimes women see guys with a high number or who is at least very sociable and assertive as "social proof" of a guy that's not only safe to sleep with, but someone who has derived value because there is an impulse for women to think, "Well, if that woman found him good enough to sleep with, there must be something to him. See: Relationship Poaching and Married Men being more desirable.
  4. A man has to care because he has the biological impulse to do so, but you also have to remember: This is a man who is committing to you as a life partner. If he has to be reminded that tons of guys have reached that "peak" with you, it makes him feel like he doesn't really have your heart on a basic level. That kind of thing is hard to get past, sometimes. Especially if a member of your "list" is someone he hates or if it's just plain long.
  5. Sometimes you will question your ability to really make your wife happy on the sexual level. A man, if he decides to commit to you, wants to be the best you've ever had because you make him so happy in a unique way. The more partners a woman has had in her past, the more likely she'll have run into a guy with a giant D or was just plain good, or both. When a man is unsure if he can please you best, he'll worry you'll look for that kind of fulfillment elsewhere.

Ideally, in an era with birth control, abortion (gawd forbid you'll ever need one), and paternity tests, we could overcome all of this mentality, but hey...
 
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