What's Harder For You? Asking For Help or Apologizing

[Cyrus' Wife]

Apologizing. I ask for help everyday mainly because I'm a brat lol.

 

[UnQuantized]

Asking for helpI apologize easy, I don't have that kind of ego

 

[High quality poster]

I’m never wrong, so I never really apologize.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

APOLOGIZING. I TRY TO DIRECT MY ACTIONS SO THAT APOLOGIES ARE NOT NEEDED.

ASKING FOR HELP CAN BE TOUGH SOMETIMES. IT'S HARD FOR ME WHEN I'M THE ONLY PARTY INVOLVED. I'LL SIMPLY DO WITHOUT UNTIL I GET MYSELF OUT OF THE SITUATION. WHEN OTHERS ARE INVOLVED, ITS EASIER TO ASK FOR HELP. I STILL DON'T LIKE IT.

 

[King Poetic]

Apologizing

 

[BaggerofTea]

Neither, I realized a while back that impulses to push back against apologizing or asking for help were lashing outs of the ego.

 

[Wildin]

Asking for help.

Not because I'm stubborn but because I'm resourceful. I do so much shyt for myself whether at work or outside every once and again I'll let someone know what I'm doing and they say "why didn't you just ask?"

 

[Bar Razor]

Asking for help. I've been on the belief that a weak man can never admit they're wrong and apologize while a strong one acknowledges that everyone makes mistakes, recognizes when they've made one, and makes amends accordingly.

 

[Seoul Gleou]

asking for help. not because of pride but because i've been burned by help that was useless

 

[The Wolf Among You]

I’ve always been good at apologizing or owning my actions, but asking for help kills me. It’s not a pride thing for me, it’s the feeling of being a burden even though my people always ensure me that’s not the case.

 

[dizzy4111]

Definitely asking for help. I don't have an ego when I know I've fukked up.

 

[nairdas]

Asking for help. It's not even a pride thing for me, just that people annoy me or can get in the way even when I honestly need their help.

 

[GoAggieGo.]

Yea, I got no problem apologizing or admitting when I’m wrong. I realized long ago, that I’m not always right and when you do wrong, you apologize. Asking for help, though. That sh*t is hard; especially when you’ve been propped up to be the golden one/child. It’s like you’re not supposed to need help. That’s why I’m appreciative for my parents, and the boys I call friends. They have helped when I needed, even though it can be hard to ask

 

[areohbee824]

Asking for help. If I’m wrong I apologize and move on, something I wasn’t good at when I was young

 

[Canada Goose]

Asking for help, I don't mind saying sorry when I'm wrong or offended someone.