What's it like having to get back into the single life?

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What's it like having to get back into the single life after a divorce or a breakup of a long term relationship?

Did you just say fukk it and stay to yourself?

Did you jump right back into the pool?
 

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I didn't have a problem gettin back into the life but I did miss certain things about the relationship, for a while I found myself doin things like looking at watch and sayin "she'll be home in a few" then realizing she wouldn't
 

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sucks and its awesome at the same time....


Being single, i get more shyt done, can focus on my studies easier for sure, mos def don't have any extra trips to do anything so i'm saving gas, i can spend a saturday doing absolutely nothing if i feel like.

But puss....:damn:, sucks not having someone around who helps you with shyt, one less laugh buddy. one less person you could call if shyt got real.

its a double-edged sword...i like relationships, but my freedom is so important to me right now.
 

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Its cool, ive taken time off from pursuing and jus seeing what the wind blows my way. No rushrush, no worries
 

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For me it's really comfortable. I get the entire bed and blanket to myself. Yeeeeeeeeeee! I'm tired of sharing. I need to be selfish for a year or so.
I don't want to date tho.. So no sexy time for me. =/ Boooooooooooooo!
 

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I didn't have a problem gettin back into the life but I did miss certain things about the relationship, for a while I found myself doin things like looking at watch and sayin "she'll be home in a few" then realizing she wouldn't

Yoooo I been thru that..she had her dog with us too...I got so used to the dog running and jumping up on my leg like he was tapping my pockets, when I'd come home from work...and her being there too...when she moved back home, it took a minute for me to get that out of my mind and not expect it when i come home anymore...

...but time heals the wounds, and a new lady in your life....that's where i'm at now.
 

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I was with my girl for 5 years and at first it was terrible getting over it but I've adjusted fine and enjoy the freedom. If I was still with her there's no chance I'd be able to travel like I will in 2013 and I'd just be stuck in the same old routine. I'm in no hurry to get in another relationship if it happens cool and if it doesn't cool.
 

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very depressing...

Trying rebound from previous relationship is the hardest. I find myself often trying to compare or find someone close to the previous lol You hook up with them but just isn't the same. I gotta shake this off.
 

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very depressing...

Trying rebound from previous relationship is the hardest. I find myself often trying to compare or find someone close to the previous lol You hook up with them but just isn't the same. I gotta shake this off.

This was discussed in another topic...hope u cut off communication with her. No matter how much you say you can be friends after, you gonna need that time of non-communication with them.
 
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