What's really out here for Medium Value Men (50 -90k per year)?

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Women are hypergamous, and that's cool. I don't see why so many men got an issue with that. shyt is human nature. It's no different than we as men wanting the finest chick we can get, women are going to gravitate towards the most attractive guy with a lot of resources that she can get. The shyt just makes sense.

EVERYONE with an average or better level of self esteem is trying to get the best partner they can possibly get. Nobody WANTS to settle when they know they can get/deserve better.


Not women in their natural state,women are empty vessels. The black man has created a hypergamous black woman. This was bound to happen by passing them around instead of taking ownership over one or several women.
 

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Women are hypergamous, and that's cool. I don't see why so many men got an issue with that. shyt is human nature. It's no different than we as men wanting the finest chick we can get, women are going to gravitate towards the most attractive guy with a lot of resources that she can get. The shyt just makes sense.

EVERYONE with an average or better level of self esteem is trying to get the best partner they can possibly get. Nobody WANTS to settle when they know they can get/deserve better.
But some women are under huge pressure to marry up by their parents. They won't approve of a dude unless he's part of a certain class or makes a certain income. The relationship is doomed from the start if dude isn't already successful or well on his way to making a decent living. I know several families like this where you ain't dating their daughter if you broke.
 

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But some women are under huge pressure to marry up by their parents. They won't approve of a dude unless he's part of a certain class or makes a certain income. The relationship is doomed from the start if dude isn't already successful or well on his way to making a decent living. I know several families like this where you ain't dating their daughter if you broke.
I think you're missing the point.

#1 if you're broke, then why are you focused on dating? #2 Why should a highly sought after woman want to be with a broke dude? What kinda parent would approve of their daughter getting with a guy who can't even make any money?

I'm just confused on why so many broke boys think they are supposed to get high quality (physically, which is how most of us judge women, let's just be honest) women?? Ugly and fat women don't really have that same entitlement to top level guys.
 

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I think you're missing the point.

#1 if you're broke, then why are you focused on dating? #2 Why should a highly sought after woman want to be with a broke dude? What kinda parent would approve of their daughter getting with a guy who can't even make any money?

I'm just confused on why so many broke boys think they are supposed to get high quality (physically, which is how most of us judge women, let's just be honest) women?? Ugly and fat women don't really have that same entitlement to top level guys.
I mean if the chick is bad enough most dudes probably feel like they don't have much to lose by shooting their shot. Plus what they lack in money they can probably make up in giving her lots of attention. And everyone knows women can view attention just as high as having lots of money. That is until a dude with lots of money comes along. So broke dudes dating a dime have to know there on borrowed time.

I personally wouldn't want to date if I'm down on my luck and broke. Because I know most chicks will cause you to spend even more money putting you in even deeper in debt. A chick will say she wants you to make all this bread but then get mad if you spend more time making dough than spending it on her.
 

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I mean if the chick is bad enough most dudes probably feel like they don't have much to lose by shooting their shot. Plus what they lack in money they can probably make up in giving her lots of attention. And everyone knows women can view attention just as high as having lots of money. That is until a dude with lots of money comes along. So broke dudes dating a dime have to know there on borrowed time.

I personally wouldn't want to date if I'm down on my luck and broke. Because I know most chicks will cause you to spend even more money putting you in even deeper in debt. A chick will say she wants you to make all this bread but then get mad if you spend more time making dough than spending it on her.
How much real life experience do you have with women, and how much of your opinions were developed from reading web forums?
 

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How much real life experience do you have with women, and how much of your opinions were developed from reading web forums?
Does coli web forum experience count?
:lolbron:

I've dated women from various backgrounds and races before. Also lived with several before but never been married.
 

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Some of you brehs are clueless about women, I was no Casanova by any stretch but I ate well in my single days.

A brotha making 90K a year would be in the upper echelon of income earners in most places not named NYC, Cali, Chitown, and a few other places with a ridiculously high cost of living.

If a man makes 50K or more with his own place, vehicle, and a little bit of swagger he can get a decent or better woman. Obviously he isn't going to get the same options of man with wealth, fame and popularity play a huge factor in attracting women, but a more everyday brotha can do well for himself with the opposite sex.

As women get older they start looking for stability and a man that would make a good husband and a father to children. A woman's dating pool gets considerably thinner after 30 years old and almost as dry as the Sahara after 40 years old.

A lot of ladies curve themselves into being single with baggage with all the superficial shyt when they are young.

If an adult man in his mid 20s to 30s with his shyt half way together can't even halfway eat in that environment he needs to reevaluate his approach.


What do you mean by this?
 

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Nothing average about that salary range, for the record.

Not to mention that salary range don't hit the same every where.

A breh who looks decent enough, makes 50K (and takes care of himself/his shyt) and doesn't have any real drama/baggage can EAT out here. GREEDILY at that.
 

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What do you mean by this?
A lot of women don't want to commit during their early and mid 20s because they're attractive and got so many dudes hounding them, but then when the falloff happens, and their looks deteriorate, now they're in their 30s and miserable because they got the same standards for the men they want, but because they got older they can't attract those men any more. There's too many younger women out there who look better and haven't had life wear them down yet.

But shyt happens. It is what it is. There's been plenty of times where I held a stock too long thinking it was gonna keep rising, but then when the price goes down I don't wanna sell it because I'm waiting for it to get back up to what it once was. But it doesn't happen. So you either end up having to sell low (the woman has to settle for a dude who is lesser than what she could have had if she would've chose when she was hot) or you just keep the stock and become bitter, hoping for a change that's never gonna come (the woman just stays single for the rest of her life, because she yearns for the type of men she could get in her 20s who don't want her any more, but she refuses to lower her standards).
 

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What do you mean by this?
Women get caught up on shyt that doesn't matter like what kinda car a man drives, whether he's cool, is he over a certain height, does he have an athletic physique, etc. All that is superficial shyt.

Not all but a lot of women fukk themselves over because they'll only date a certain type of man and they'll pass up some other man that is everything they need and most of what they want behin his swagger not being right or him being short or not driving the right type of car or being from the right part of town.

I've literally seen and heard women dismiss men for shyt like that.

Those same women typically end up hurt when what they wanted doesn't work out because they passed over what they needed.

This nicca done broke your heart, messed up your credit, left you with trust issues, insecure, and with an unplanned pregnancy now you taking about where are all the good men at. Cold world.
 
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