What’s the best thing you’ve done to get out of the doghouse with your girl?

[number21]

Listen to @Turbulent OP. Hes trying to help you keep your manhood in check.

 

[Dad]

If this is real. You gotta forgive yourself. Hold yourself accountable. And practice some damn self control.

 

[Born2BKing]

her friend. Who I knew was there

I said hi to her earlier in the night, I just got drunk af

This will play in your favor too. The friend saw that was all you did. You didn't leave with the ex or no shyt did you?

 

[Warren Moon]

Flowers and dinner? Like i said, stop living your life like this is a tv show. Just have a talk with her, tell her you are sorry about not telling her what happened at the club. Tell her you didn't think it was a big deal but thinking back you can understand her point of view. Let her get off her chest whatever she needs. Say you understand. Don't argue or debate on technicalities. Don't say you agree. Say you understand. When it's done, say something vague like it's good that both of you are communicating more. Then never mention it again. No flowers, no fancy dinner, nothing. If she brings it up again, check her on it.

rep

This will play in your favor too. The friend saw that was all you did. You didn't leave with the ex or no shyt did you?

No I left solo.

 

[karim]

Do what she would do if the roles were reversed: deflect and find a way to make it her fault

A good place to start is inquiring about how she got the video and then accusing her of sending her friends to spy on you

 

[Voice of Reason]

Flowers and dinner? Like i said, stop living your life like this is a tv show. Just have a talk with her, tell her you are sorry about not telling her what happened at the club. Tell her you didn't think it was a big deal but thinking back you can understand her point of view. Let her get off her chest whatever she needs. Say you understand. Don't argue or debate on technicalities. Don't say you agree. Say you understand. When it's done, say something vague like it's good that both of you are communicating more. Then never mention it again. No flowers, no fancy dinner, nothing. If she brings it up again, check her on it.

Basically validate her feelings without agreeing with her.

 

[Knowledge]

Strayed to another house

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

her friend. Who I knew was there

I said hi to her earlier in the night, I just got drunk af

That was a whole set up
U.E.O.N.O

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I once fukked up bad.

I did anger management and got in church heavy to fix me within.

She left the house for a month and came back.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

My husband smoked me n gave me 7 slabs of ribs with smoky bourbon Jack daniels bbq sauce on em

 

[WaveMolecules]

just be honest

 

[MajesticLion]

Where was the "lying" part?