What's the best way to get over a bytch?
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I feel you breh. I had to leave my girl of 3.5 years this halloween. Earlier this year my dumbass ran to the coli making a thread about how she's a pathological liar yadda yadda ya "but I love her". All the brehs clowned me (and rightfully so, fukk was I sticking around for?) But in my head I refused to break up with her just because the coli said to so I stomached the pain.
Bad idea. That was over 6 months ago. I may not have been ALL the way over it by now, but I sure as shyt would feel a whole lot better than now. The difference between me and you is I am the one who left my girl but the point is you have to know what's best for you. That bytch wasn't a rider breh, charge her to the game and eat.
It's a little different for me because since I'm 27 and went through my first real breakup at 19 I know how this shyt go. It hurts like a motherfukker but you just gotta focus on the light at the end of the tunnel. YOU gotta walk towards the light though, cuz if you hide out in the tunnel feeling sorry for yourself you'll never get better.
Pm if need be breh, I'm here for you young bul
Bad idea. That was over 6 months ago. I may not have been ALL the way over it by now, but I sure as shyt would feel a whole lot better than now. The difference between me and you is I am the one who left my girl but the point is you have to know what's best for you. That bytch wasn't a rider breh, charge her to the game and eat.
It's a little different for me because since I'm 27 and went through my first real breakup at 19 I know how this shyt go. It hurts like a motherfukker but you just gotta focus on the light at the end of the tunnel. YOU gotta walk towards the light though, cuz if you hide out in the tunnel feeling sorry for yourself you'll never get better.
Pm if need be breh, I'm here for you young bul
PhonZhi
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Time. Thats the only answer . Time.
Pu55y isn't the answer because you don't even want another female right now.
Time heals all wound .
In the meantime, just gotta let it burn
Pu55y isn't the answer because you don't even want another female right now.
Time heals all wound .
In the meantime, just gotta let it burn
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MoveForward
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MGTOW
Breh, she’s making the right decision for herself. She has to create healthy boundaries for herself. You aren’t well emotionally and you look at her as a crutch but, who’s her crutch? Please take this time to address your emotions and mental health cuz that’s more important than she is right now.
Practice self control and don’t call or go on her social media. It’s time to grow and become a better version of yourself. Do you have support besides her? I really feel for you, breh. I went through a bad break up beginning of this year and these articles helped me out. DO NOT LOOK FOR A NEW RELATIONSHIP. FOCUS ON GETTING EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY STABLE...PLEASE
SURVIVE -- TABLE OF CONTENTS
How to Boost Your Dating Confidence
What It Really Means to Love Yourself https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/intimacy-path-toward-spirituality/201510/what-it-really-means-love-yourself?eml
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/me-we/201306/how-mourn-breakup-move-past-grief-and-withdrawal?eml
Practice self control and don’t call or go on her social media. It’s time to grow and become a better version of yourself. Do you have support besides her? I really feel for you, breh. I went through a bad break up beginning of this year and these articles helped me out. DO NOT LOOK FOR A NEW RELATIONSHIP. FOCUS ON GETTING EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY STABLE...PLEASE
SURVIVE -- TABLE OF CONTENTS
How to Boost Your Dating Confidence
What It Really Means to Love Yourself https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/intimacy-path-toward-spirituality/201510/what-it-really-means-love-yourself?eml
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/me-we/201306/how-mourn-breakup-move-past-grief-and-withdrawal?eml
Heafcliffe
Hope there's puddin' in the clink...
The first one is typically the hardest to get over. It'll get easier, b.
Just busy yourself. Time will pass and her memory will fleet. Trust.
Just busy yourself. Time will pass and her memory will fleet. Trust.
Very good advice in this thread. Let this be the fuel to your fire. Refuse to fail.
I’m going thru something similar but I got a huge blessing, so I’m just eating my L and taking the good with the bad.
Don’t let this define who you’ll become. Tell yourself that you wish the best for her when you’re upset/down about the situation. Don’t lie to yourself by only remembering the good times. You already said she wasn’t that “bad,” and I’m sure she could feel that energy. Hell, the fact that she wasn’t that bad to you should let you know that you wouldn’t have been happy with her either.
Your ego is hurt. Not your heart...think about it.
Don’t take the path of least resistance on this one.
You already had her so let the next nikka have her.
I’m going thru something similar but I got a huge blessing, so I’m just eating my L and taking the good with the bad.
Don’t let this define who you’ll become. Tell yourself that you wish the best for her when you’re upset/down about the situation. Don’t lie to yourself by only remembering the good times. You already said she wasn’t that “bad,” and I’m sure she could feel that energy. Hell, the fact that she wasn’t that bad to you should let you know that you wouldn’t have been happy with her either.
Your ego is hurt. Not your heart...think about it.
Don’t take the path of least resistance on this one.
You already had her so let the next nikka have her.
Feel sorry for yourself for a bit, then channel that resentment and frustration into productive, self-improving activities that help you release endorphins.
No drugs. Don't depend on them or her. Become the best version of you
The gym was my saving grace after my first heartbreak
No drugs. Don't depend on them or her. Become the best version of you
The gym was my saving grace after my first heartbreak
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
It just hurts cause its fresh...Time will heal all breh and more importantly add clarity...you'll realize all the fukked up shyt you let slide and see why you're better off in the end.
fukking a new chick helps too...especially when she finer than the last one.
fukking a new chick helps too...especially when she finer than the last one.
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