What's The BIG Issue With Being CELIBATE In 2017? (Especially, If You Can't Afford To Be A Parent)

[SirReginald]

I made a thread two years ago about being a virgin/celibate because I wanted t be a responsible adult. Now, every time I post something or in a debate that's the first thing that's thrown out.

For you SO-CALLED Pro-Blacks isn't that a positive thing? At least we aren't bringing in innocent Black children into this world. Just think about that. It would be stupid for a Black baby to grow up unloved wouldn't it? For some brothas p*ssy isn't everything. Some of us care about bettering our future. This comes from a breh who's never been in trouble with the law and a product citizen in society.

Remember, what you do in this world has consequences (BOTH positive and negative).

Just think about that next time you call me a virgin/celibate :whateverficca:

P.S. as a community we should value education and plan for our future. That's just how I feel about it. Also, being careless can bring STD's and HIV.

 

[Okocha]

If you're a Virgin because of religious reasons or for some sort of personal reason, I think there is nothing wrong with that.

If you're a Virgin because your a lame, then Houston we've got a problem!

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Only answering off the title.

Having sex doesn't automatically make you a parent. Does it make your chances higher? Obviously.

But don't act like you're virgin because you can't afford to be a parent.

 

[Thierry Henry]

man stop making threads on the coli and go out and get some p*ssy

 

[Y2Dre]

Don't let the coli dictate how to live your life.

None of us really know for sure how any of the brehs are living in reality.

Just do you.

It's your life.

 

[The Burger King]

OP this ain't gonna end the way you want it to.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

there is this thing called "condoms"

 

[Standing on business]

They don't make fun of you cause you're a virgin, they make fun of you cause you're a virgin who always talks about beating up p*ssy. And cause you look down on people who have sex.

 

[全能の神]

#virgingang we out here

 

[SirReginald]

Only answering off the title.

Having sex doesn't automatically make you a parent. Does it make your chances higher? Obviously.

But don't act like you're virgin because you can't afford to be a parent.

That's one reason why I'm a virgin is because I can't afford to be a parent right now. Also, I believe in having a two parent home like my parents had with me. As a Black man, I feel it's wrong to bring Black children in this world without a stable home. Almost every chick I knew from my highschool is a mother now. Kind of the same with some of the dudes I went to highschool with too.

 

[Trajan]

This comes from a breh who's about to temp at the shipyard and go back to school next Summer (grant should be available in the spring).

^^^^

Breh you share too many intimate details about your life. People can only use against you what you have divulged.

Why did you make a thread about being virgin if you're going to complain about people roasting you about it?

 

[Thingsfallapart]

Nothing is wrong with being a virgin. But when you speak on sex and relationships as if you have any experience w/ either, people are going to call you out.
If you stayed in your lane people wouldn't get at you.

And we all know the real reason you're a virgin has nothing to do w/ kids. Be real and get off the high horse.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

That's one reason why I'm a virgin is because I can't afford to be a parent right now. Also, I believe in having a two parent home like my parents had with me. As a Black man, I feel it's wrong to bring Black children in this world without a stable home. Almost every chick I knew from my highschool is a mother now. Kind of the same with some of the dudes I went to highschool with too.

Just admit u a virgin cause u don't have game to get woman bra

 

[SirReginald]

Don't let the coli dictate how to live your life.

None of us really know for sure how any of the brehs are living in reality.

Just do you.

It's your life.

I made this because I see the same statements made to people in real life also. Especially, with some dudes I used to hang around with from my neighborhood. This sort of thinking in my opinion has held us back. How do you expect to care care of a baby when you can't even feed yourself. If that's the headache I'll get when I have a kid and broke, then I'm glad to be celibate/virgin. In this day and age condoms can even break.

 

[West Coast Avenger]

We all know the real reason you a virgin though.........