Whats the biggest reason why your single?

havoc

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Live your own life
- Late bloomer (the longer you wait the worse the potential prospects to choose from). Took longer than it should have to get my shyt together in life which is what comes first before even trying to be somebody to take seriously in a relationship. At least that's my view. Not the case for others.

- Emotional unavailable/selfishness (don't be caring about most people's problems and needs). Honestly just be looking at these females as a means for me to get my nut off and that's pretty much it.

- Relatively unrealistic expectations (I'm past 30 and finding a single, childless, interesting chick around the same age, with similar hobbies and interests to mine and with a good head on her shoulders is basically impossible to find). That's not even getting into the looks department.

- Too much of a loner/introverted type who doesn't even put himself out there in the real world to really find somebody to begin with. Spend most of my energy on these lame unrealistic dating apps...

- From the Southeastern part of Alabama and the dating pool here is unideal. I feel as though I can't relate to most of the blackw omen down here. I'm also somewhat of an a$$hole/judgy type and usually find something I don't like about the person after a short period of time. Have a low tolerance for BS as well.

- Get bored very easily and find it hard to find other people interesting. I've yet to meet somebody who I'd rather spend time with rather than by myself (in a relationship capacity).

I've pretty much accepted that I'm more than likely not going to have the wife and kids thing happening for me.
Yea, you deserved to be single. :hhh: But I'll give you credit for acknowledging your flaws. I hope you are working on it to improve yourself so you can find a good woman and start a family.
 

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Had a super janky 2019-2021 relationship that opened my eyes to a bunch of bullshyt and taught me to know my worth.

I’m 30 so girls my age got kid(s) and/or fat now. It’s also hard to find a girl 25 or younger that isn’t on some thot shyt :francis:

I’m still a bachelor taking hoes down tho but it would be nice to find a solid lady after 2 years with a c*nt
 

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Ended a 3 year relationship in 2022, caught her talking to another breh.

I'm enjoying being single for now, hopefully will meet someone later on
 
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