Whats the biggest reason why your single?

[Negus in Detroit]

I’m a good catch. So I’m being extremely selective on the type of woman I choose to be my girlfriend. That’s what my dad and old heads on the block taught me growing up

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

hmmm im similar but for what you described id retire

i had a ghanaian chick, oxford law grad, good job (tho not a lawyer), nice ass, cooks, gym rat, decent face, and personality wise we have great chemistry
but im not attracted enough to her face and i feel like she might have a bit of a stomach. Plus she is 32 (im 27). Plus like you said summers around the corner so i cant be locked down to her. not good enough. my mind says yes...my dikk/heart says nah. She has been mad demanding of my time so im saying fukk it cause i know itll only snow ball into her pressuring me into a relationship

theres another girl whos almost all of the above but indian and got a better body and is younger, I'd retire for her i think (surprising cause shes not black/african). But we'll see

the options thing is real ...not even for us but them. i feel like shes got too many options and I'm stuck between competing or playing it cool so i dont scare her off

I don’t care what other boxes a girl checks, if you’re not physically attracted to her you will stray when the opportunity presents itself. The sundresses and swimsuits are coming out and you’re going to be like

Don’t waste your or her time, breh.

 

[Ohene]

I don’t care what other boxes a girl checks, if you’re not physically attracted to her you will stray when the opportunity presents itself. The sundresses and swimsuits are coming out and you’re going to be like

Don’t waste your or her time, breh.

no doubt. keeping it moving.

this indian girl though i gotta get a grip on myself

when you know you can/have pulled 9s...its hard to settle for a 7. especially when youre a high caliber dude

at the same time men like us be careful cause i have seen and heard tales of many old men (at work even and shyt) who had the wife, the kids...and are now divorced.

im chillin

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

Me and broke b1tches don't get along

Virtually all my exes LOOKED LIKE MONEY but HAD NO MONEY

living above their means. .

Making bad financial decisions

Fukk dat sh1t money problems in a relationship will drain you

Till I find someone who can match me in pay and credit score..

I'll be by myself .....

Im passionate about my business

These relationships have been fun but WASTEFUL

 

[Piffiztheanswer]

No social circle (move around too much)

Career oriented (tryna get this paper by any means)

Too critical or picky (personal problem im working on it)

Introvert/shy (not always but mostly)

But i'm a type to feel the energy... thats what it depends on.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Nah I've always dressed nice. I've always gotten compliments on how I dress, shoes, etc. I'm just a ugly dude.

Hair and facial hair?

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I'm not single but....

Peace and quiet > p*ssy and all the noise and obligations that come with it.

 

[ItzRailT]

Don't really have the time or patience to deal with these bird brain women on longterm basis, they don't offer no value to me aside p*ssy and even than that's trash as well.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

So my latest female friend was someone I knew since I was 19 (be 44 in a couple weeks)

she just made me mad by refusing to give me more time (we talking average of two 3 hour sessions per month for 3 months straight. I chirped up and her reaction was some tough girl routine about how I better be glad to have her in my life... oh word?)

so now I am #drydikk #losergang

I realized. I been in this town (back in my hometown) 2 fukcing years now and I haven't met

ONE

female that I like, that likes me, that I take seriously

I curved a football team worth of females that was on it, but they wasn't interesting enough to captivate my attention

I guess the answer to thread title is:

I'm an a$$hole?

 

[richaveli83]

All jokes aside I'm too much of a homebody and boring. I rather be at home reading a book, playing video games, or watching something on Netflix. I don't drink and don't smoke. I used to go to lounges to just hang out and meet people but being around alcohol when you don't drink is weird. It turns women off because they're like why the hell are you in a bar/lounge when you don't drink.

Plus I don't go out as much. I'm still fairly new to Houston and I have associates, not friends, that I know from work. I literally just go to work and the gym. On my off days I spend it just sleeping/resting. I'm a respiratory therapist in a hospital and work 7P-7A and I'm usually too tired/lazy on my off days.

Also it's hard for me to seal the deal. I'll approach a chick and get her number but don't call or follow up. Or if I do call it never goes anywhere.

I've always dressed nice, make good money and have a career, have a nice car, my own place, stay monogamous when I'm in a relationship, no kids and no STDS/STI but females don't want to fukk with me.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

I'm shaped like Winnie the Pooh

 

[richaveli83]

Hair and facial hair?

I have a good hairline and get either a haircut or edge up weekly. I alternate between a mustache or clean shaven. Never been into beards. I'm 35 but people think I'm 26 or 27 because I look young and have a youthful personality.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

“I TOLD YOU FROM DAY ONE, I AIN’T shyt, WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS, I DON’T HAVE THE PATIENCE” -JAY-Z

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

I know what I'm not good at plus I move around way too much.

 

[SouljaVoy]

I'm actually considered above average in attractiveness....tall, athletic body, handsome face, beard, "good hair"... etc..... I'm just broke as shyt right now and still live with my mom.


Women approach me a lot... I just turn them down cause I'm not a dirt-bag who has women pay for dates.