Whats the biggest reason why your single?

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Being alone most of my teenage years made me socially inept. I fail many times trying to "woo" the opposite gender. Feels pretty depressing sometimes. I just want to be able to connect with others. Plus, the embarrassment of other dudes knowing you cant get no buns :francis:

I ain't too upset about it, I could have fun by myself outside and do what I want to do. Its just itll be nice with company and affection
This one is easier to change than most...if you've been in the same area for a while, worth trying a move somewhere new.

The change of scenery often helps people escape these sorts of self-imposed mental constraints. When you're new somewhere, it's impossible to think like this - nobody knows your history.

That ends up opening up a whole lot of opportunities for growth. Not just dating, but social and career growth as well.
 

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I've already went on a couple of dates with him before I got flaky lol. He was cool. I'm just being my typical fickle self lol. It's like I like people at first, but then I find the silliest reasons to be done with them. :snoop:
There is nothing wrong with being fickle. You can avoid tons of headaches that way. Always listen to your intuition it's seldom wrong. Nothing worse than getting into a relationship with the wrong person because you ignored the signs.
 

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I would say because I am ugly but the reality is I'm too lazy to try. It seems way too time consuming to try and court a woman. Plus I'm not in a right financial or mental state right now. That is why I never complain about being lonely, I just embrace it for what it is.

Also that is another thing; some people are not comfortable with being alone that they rush into a relationship with anybody it seems. But that is a thread for anotha day.
 

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I guess I didn't expect some the brehs and brehettes to be so honest. And if they were I gues I expected some more scumbag type shyt but instead there's some introspective shyt and even some lowkey sad shyt that I could have related too a couple of years ago.
What can you relate to? I know you aren't ugly gang. I have a feeling that you look good enough to warrant this :wow:

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Something about people who refer to themselves as “ugly.”

I mean, we all have things we could work on physically or don’t like about ourselves. But to flat out call yourself ugly...is sad to me. :francis::mjcry:

If you get called ugly enough times, you'll start to believe it.

Attractiveness is subjective, but beauty is not.
 

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Something about people who refer to themselves as “ugly.”

I mean, we all have things we could work on physically or don’t like about ourselves. But to flat out call yourself ugly...is sad to me. :francis::mjcry:

You do not choose ugly gang.Ugly gang chooses you.


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