Whats the biggest reason why your single?

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There’s really women out there who don’t care if you live at home?
yes, ask my homie who smashes women at his mom's house and just turns the tv up so they don't hear it :dead:
 

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Lol I live in New York City -- in Manhattan.

I feel like whenever I used to go to NYC, to visit my sis, from the time I got off the train to arrive all the way up until it was time to leave, men used to be so thirsty. Like so thirsty. If anything, NYC, seems like the best place for attractive women to have an endless roster of men to fukk.

@Alvin come down south. Charlotte, Atlanta, Houston--attractive BW. And I know a lot of BW that are looking to settle down out here.
 

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What can you relate to? I know you aren't ugly gang. I have a feeling that you look good enough to warrant this :wow:

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I can relate to how some of the guys on here talk about social anxiety and not being able to close with women. I used to have a problem with that until I basically just said fukk it and started being more comfortable with myself and getting out of my own head. Not even on any narcissistic shyt, I haven't really had a problem getting girls since I was like 12. I'm charming and funny but lack of confidence at times will make you not realize your strengths and how attractive they are to other people so you don't use them.

Also it's a curse being an introverted people person.:francis:

I like spending time by myself :yeshrug:

But this damn personality keeps drawing people to meView media item 19194
 

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I feel like whenever I used to go to NYC, to visit my sis, from the time I got off the train to arrive all the way up until it was time to leave, men used to be so thirsty. Like so thirsty. If anything, NYC, seems like the best place for attractive women to have an endless roster of men to fukk.

@Alvin come down south. Charlotte, Atlanta, Houston--attractive BW. And I know a lot of BW that are looking to settle down out here.
my mom wants me to move to charlotte lol
idk I'm set on Tampa right now or Phoenix
 

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i think my biggest reason is that when it comes to the women ireally want ...i get too excited.

i am extremely shyt at playing the games that people do now (the ignored messages, the long responses, etc.). Even if I have a roster there is always one girl that if she was down i'd relinquish the rest of them. My excitement causes me to be direct...and my directness or aggressiveness scares girls off.
I was just having this convo with someone yesterday. I was telling breh that no matter how much you like a woman you're dating you can't be too available for her or she won't value you. It's a shame that you can't just text a woman right back or talk to her on the phone for a long time but if you do she'll think you don't have shyt else to do and she won't value you if you give her the time she wants.


Women are crazy as shyt and logically it makes no sense but they're built how they're built, if a woman calls you today and asks if you're free to hangout and you say yeah she'll think you have no social life and will think why is she spending time with someone nobody else wants to be with.
 

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This is why we won’t work. I don’t like other women and you do. Let’s just be friends and celebrate our differences.
Define "friend" in your own words. :jbhmm:
I mean...is it acceptable to cuddle with a friend? Sometimes?
 

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I can relate to how some of the guys on here talk about social anxiety and not being able to close with women. I used to have a problem with that until I basically just said fukk it and started being more comfortable with myself and getting out of my own head. Not even on any narcissistic shyt, I haven't really had a problem getting girls since I was like 12. I'm charming and funny but lack of confidence at times will make you not realize your strengths and how attractive they are to other people so you don't use them.

Also it's a curse being an introverted people person.:francis:

I like spending time by myself :yeshrug:

But this damn personality keeps drawing people to meView media item 19194

I feel like I have a similar issue as what you've mentioned. There probably is some anxiety involved. But also, I don't like being vulnerable or opening up. I almost feel like it's weak and exposes you to feeling emotions that can fukk you up, and having you doing stupid stuff. I think I don't like the *feels*, but it's a control issue for me. Feeling too much, or opening up too much means I've lost control, if that makes sense. I'm 50% introvert, 50% extrovert but also feel like I'm stuck in my head sometimes too. I was just telling a friend that--I analyze shyt too much, and think too deeply. I definitely feel like my biggest issue is myself, lol--sometimes we can be our worst enemies.
 

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I was just having this convo with someone yesterday. I was telling breh that no matter how much you like a woman you're dating you can't be too available for her or she won't value you. It's a shame that you can't just text a woman right back or talk to her on the phone for a long time but if you do she'll think you don't have shyt else to do and she won't value you if you give her the time she wants.


Women are crazy as shyt and logically it makes no sense but they're built how they're built, if a woman calls you today and asks if you're free to hangout and you say yeah she'll think you have no social life and will think why is she spending time with someone nobody else wants to be with.
its sad. the reality is a I will have bytches that want to spend time with me...I just would rather spend time with the particular one
girls dont get that...but will wonder why men feel its mandatory to keep a roster
 

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its sad. the reality is a I will have bytches that want to spend time with me...I just would rather spend time with the particular one
girls dont get that...but will wonder why men feel its mandatory to keep a roster
I'm out the game now but the reality is there are very few women I've met in life that I actually enjoyed spending non-sexual time with. I'd say besides my current woman there's been 2 at the most. I truly believe what Sonny said in Bronx Tale

 
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