Whats the difference between fetishizing and preference?

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Just trade F words.

Fetishize means you only want to fukk someone with specific trait.

Preference would be, you could actually be in a relationship, get married, have kids with them.
 

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How can you tell somebodys fetishizing a certain group of people versus them being her/his preference
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I like "white" girls

I like "black guys"

fetishizing


"I'm not opposed to dating outside my race"... no particular preference... A normal person can have a preference on a look and personality that isn't based on race. If you only preference is based on race it is a fetish plain and simple.
 

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I like "white" girls

I like "black guys"

fetishizing


"I'm not opposed to dating outside my race"... no particular preference... A normal person can have a preference on a look and personality that isn't based on race. If you only preference is based on race it is a fetish plain and simple.

If you like a big ass on a woman and that's what you go for ...you got a big ass fetish
 

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example:

Preference- I like asian women based on my experience with them and I find that I have a lot in common with them and compatible.
Fetish - I like asian women because they're submissive, me love you long time, subservient based on the common stereotypes as portrayed in american media over the last 100 years.

So i think the difference is that a fetish is based on prejudice/stereotype/racism at a deeper level rather than just a preference.
This is the right answer.
 

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Most overused words in some parts in 2018
and no one in here knows what the fukk they are talking about :mjlol:
 

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The difference is in why you prefer something. If you prefer women with big asses because of how good she looks in a dress, that's a preference. If you prefer women with big asses because it looks good while you hitting it from the back, that's a fetish.

Basically, it's a fetish if you feel it enhances the sexual experience for you. If it is something you just like to look at, that's a preference
 
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