Obviously you shouldn't go full sucka mode, but at what point does a man finally let a girl be his world?
It can't be that bad out there.
It can't be that bad out there.
What's the endgame for Team #HOH?
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BlackDiBiase
Superstar
dope question.
they say love is a form of madness, so there has to be no doubt you trust the woman and what i mean is in 2022 i dont trust them. their doctrines are from (sexandthecity) and rihanna promiscuous behaviors. so i can understand the HOH but i am trying to get married so ... dope question.
TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?
I walk around a little edgy already
Simp babble
Henri Christophe
Son Of Afrika
Never
We are supposed to be their world.
We got more important things to do like waking up early and being productive.
Take if from a nikka that been there-- NEVER let a woman become your world. You end up wanting to kill someone or even yourself.
There is no benefit for a man to be married in 2022, especially when you getting the same benefits in LTRs.
Always stay on your purpose, move like a real man and don't worry about these birds.
Ya, being a manwhore is only fun for so long....
Mutual interests is key probably though. Someone you can grow and discover with. Equally yoked as they say. I'm sure some happily espoused individuals can vouch for this.
I thought this too, but there are some situations where legally it would be in your best interest to have your woman recognized as your spouse. Like what if you're hospitalized and she can't get access to you.
BlackDiBiase
Superstar
truth i am 38 now and its just not a good look to not have found a significant other to build a world around.
such immaturity and lack of options have most mentality to be anti-relationships or anti-women in general, but a lot of worthy sisters out there.
so i am interested to find out different views on when "you should make her your world".
lol @ thinking people in love dont make bank, they getting bank thats how they got the girl to fall in love with.
You can always have whoever you want on emergency contacts.
I've always had my mom and brothers on my shyt ( I got 4 younger brothers)
BlackDiBiase
Superstar
not just legal benefits but health benefits too, and social benefits because its weirdos in their 40s that are single that will go on to be 70+ that are outcasted.
married men live longer due to diet,sex,etc ... all the benefits of a positive life.
Absolutely none of this is due to being married.
What you really saying is most nikkas ain't disciplined and on their shyt.
You are indoctrinated family.
BlackDiBiase
Superstar
stop it bro.
most single men of a certain age have a piss poor diet, poor hygiene since no spouse, no responsibility, and their friends have maligned them because they dont have a woman. it shows a seedy character living like that.
having a partner will bring that discipline and effort out of you naturally to improve yours and her world.
well its a good african doctrine, to always do and be about your woman/family.
society and life would cease to exist with your HOH# and GMB# mantras because how will we reproduce prosperity with just b*stard children and no family?
anyway i said enough, let this thread cook and see some other views.
That's my point brotha. What you are saying is most men ain't about shyt and need a babysitter.
What I preach is be about your mission. Stay in shape. Work hard, and stack that bread. You don't need a woman for any of that, and in fact, a woman is most of the times a detriment to it.
If you the type that get lonely or whatever, #HOH is not for you, and hey, more power to you.
I'm just saying, the stuff you peddling is due to women controlling the narrative, i.e., you need a woman to keep you healthy. No, you need discipline.
BlackDiBiase
Superstar
That's my point brotha. What you are saying is most men ain't about shyt and need a babysitter.
What I preach is be about your mission. Stay in shape. Work hard, and stack that bread. You don't need a woman for any of that, and in fact, a woman is most of the times a detriment to it.
If you the type that get lonely or whatever, #HOH is not for you, and hey, more power to you.
I'm just saying, the stuff you peddling is due to women controlling the narrative, i.e., you need a woman to keep you healthy. No, you need discipline.
i see what you are saying.
but i believe especially in what i highlighted that a good woman will make you fly, will support your endeavors but more importantly having another being by you will make sure of you not slacking on the basics in life. ie. health,work,etc.
you know men (not you or the coli specifically) tend to think that having a woman puts your goals to the side. i think it boost and improves them ... because face it those who are single spend a lot of time trying to tame their sexual lust its natural but also mentally and time constricting.
i hear what you are saying though.
I don’t think men are afraid of marriage, moreso afraid of divorce
If there were no such thing as divorce and marriage truly was forever
Or there was no financial incentive to divorce, no such thing as alimony or divorce settlements etc
Way more men would want to get married and way less women would want to get married
If there were no such thing as divorce and marriage truly was forever
Or there was no financial incentive to divorce, no such thing as alimony or divorce settlements etc
Way more men would want to get married and way less women would want to get married
