What's the endgame for Team #HOH?

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HOH is because you took losses/seen other men take losses when dealing with certain women. Being HOH prevents you from taking said losses in the future. It ain’t about never finding peace with a woman. It’s about recognizing the signs that you about to play ya self. Fall back. I can think of plenty of times I gave a woman chances at the talking stages of the relationship (and sometimes in the dating stage) only to take a L at the end, when all the signs were there. If I was HOH I would’ve never given these women the chance to play me. HOH is ultimately the product of living and learning. Which, as a man you should always be learning.
 

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Nothing lasts forever. All this ish on earth is temporary bruh. Marriage ends in death or divorce. No way you living your purpose, taking risks, etc. but you afraid of a marriage not lasting until you die. These YouTubers got some cats wilding nowadays.

Most men won't reach their full potential being a bachelor for life. You can't ignore the fact that the greatest men in history were mostly married at one point.

Again, this is indoctrination talking.

You do not have to be married to be great, rich, educated or healthy.

What does "full potential" mean? You're telling me you are not whole without another person. This is why women continue to hold all the power in social dynamics-- you people literally allow them to make you feel like you aren't achieving anything without marrying them.

Earlier I mentioned you get all the benefits of marriage in a long term relationship. Let me add to this quote:

You get all the benefits of marriage in a long term relationship without any of the downsides.

Fact: just about 50% of marriages end in divorce
Fact: 80% of divorces are initiated by women
Fact: men get fukked in the majority of divorces, losing half their wealth, for no reason
Fact: men who get divorced contemplate or commit suicide at a higher rate than single men
Fact: men pay the majority of alimony, even if she gets with another man
Fact: divorce courts almost always side with the woman, and the man loses custody of their kids

:manny:

You don't need to be married to have a woman, children, health, etc. Marriage is literally an archaic legal institution meant to support women and does not benefit men in any way. A woman has every reason in the world to get married; a man has every reason not to.

These just facts breh.
 

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Again, this is indoctrination talking.

You do not have to be married to be great, rich, educated or healthy.

What does "full potential" mean? You're telling me you are not whole without another person. This is why women continue to hold all the power in social dynamics-- you people literally allow them to make you feel like you aren't achieving anything without marrying them.

Earlier I mentioned you get all the benefits of marriage in a long term relationship. Let me add to this quote:

You get all the benefits of marriage in a long term relationship without any of the downsides.

Fact: just about 50% of marriages end in divorce
Fact: 80% of divorces are initiated by women
Fact: men get fukked in the majority of divorces, losing half their wealth, for no reason
Fact: men who get divorced contemplate or commit suicide at a higher rate than single men
Fact: men pay the majority of alimony, even if she gets with another man
Fact: divorce courts almost always side with the woman, and the man loses custody of their kids

:manny:

You don't need to be married to have a woman, children, health, etc. Marriage is literally an archaic legal institution meant to support women and does not benefit men in any way. A woman has every reason in the world to get married; a man has every reason not to.

These just facts breh.

This is usually why men become HOH. Give your heart, time (which you can’t get back), and resources only to be emotionally and financially destroyed because she “loves you but is not in love with you” or “has no romantic feelings towards you anymore” or the classic “I’m confused”. Hard to trust when you get burned. Reality. I’m sure we’ve all heard women say those EXACT words. Like they come off an assembly line. It is what it is. These days it’s best to play your position and let the cards fall where they fall. If she’s a good woman treat her well but be prepared…

She will leave at some point
 

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Again, this is indoctrination talking.

You do not have to be married to be great, rich, educated or healthy.

What does "full potential" mean? You're telling me you are not whole without another person. This is why women continue to hold all the power in social dynamics-- you people literally allow them to make you feel like you aren't achieving anything without marrying them.

Earlier I mentioned you get all the benefits of marriage in a long term relationship. Let me add to this quote:

You get all the benefits of marriage in a long term relationship without any of the downsides.

Fact: just about 50% of marriages end in divorce
Fact: 80% of divorces are initiated by women
Fact: men get fukked in the majority of divorces, losing half their wealth, for no reason
Fact: men who get divorced contemplate or commit suicide at a higher rate than single men
Fact: men pay the majority of alimony, even if she gets with another man
Fact: divorce courts almost always side with the woman, and the man loses custody of their kids

:manny:

You don't need to be married to have a woman, children, health, etc. Marriage is literally an archaic legal institution meant to support women and does not benefit men in any way. A woman has every reason in the world to get married; a man has every reason not to.

These just facts breh.
I can’t read all that but good luck young man.
 
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Im 100% with you there.

In fact i think black society has become degenerate due to following the new west's ways of being overly sexually expressive and liberal. causing a lot of false expectations and ruined relationships and even life in general.

womens magazines and shows are all about sexual liberty, libidos, monetizing your sexuality,etc. its quite sad.

therefore men walking around in unfair heat like dogs, wanting to smash smash anyone.

Thats not true... in fact black men have the least amount of sex out of all men in america
 
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Again, this is indoctrination talking.

You do not have to be married to be great, rich, educated or healthy.

What does "full potential" mean? You're telling me you are not whole without another person. This is why women continue to hold all the power in social dynamics-- you people literally allow them to make you feel like you aren't achieving anything without marrying them.

Earlier I mentioned you get all the benefits of marriage in a long term relationship. Let me add to this quote:

You get all the benefits of marriage in a long term relationship without any of the downsides.

Fact: just about 50% of marriages end in divorce
Fact: 80% of divorces are initiated by women
Fact: men get fukked in the majority of divorces, losing half their wealth, for no reason
Fact: men who get divorced contemplate or commit suicide at a higher rate than single men
Fact: men pay the majority of alimony, even if she gets with another man
Fact: divorce courts almost always side with the woman, and the man loses custody of their kids

:manny:

You don't need to be married to have a woman, children, health, etc. Marriage is literally an archaic legal institution meant to support women and does not benefit men in any way. A woman has every reason in the world to get married; a man has every reason not to.

These just facts breh.

Yep, men have to go foreign to even have an actual family (wife+kids)...
 

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Thats not true... in fact black men have the least amount of sex out of all men in america

i didnt make comments on anything to do with black men in americas sex stats, i was talking about in general we are getting more degenerate.

heres my comment.
Im 100% with you there.

In fact i think black society has become degenerate due to following the new west's ways of being overly sexually expressive and liberal. causing a lot of false expectations and ruined relationships and even life in general.

womens magazines and shows are all about sexual liberty, libidos, monetizing your sexuality,etc. its quite sad.

therefore men walking around in unfair heat like dogs, wanting to smash smash anyone.

i never mentioned black men at all sex stats.
 
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i didnt make comments on anything to do with black men in americas sex stats, i was talking about in general we are getting more degenerate.

heres my comment.

"In fact i think black society has become degenerate due to following the new west's" & "therefore men walking around in unfair heat like dogs, wanting to smash smash anyone."

^^^Lets see... Black+men walking around in heat+the new west = black american men... you indeed are talking about black men...
 

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"In fact i think black society has become degenerate due to following the new west's" & "therefore men walking around in unfair heat like dogs, wanting to smash smash anyone."

^^^Lets see... Black+men walking around in heat+the new west = black american men... you indeed are talking about black men...

west = white people.

i am not talking about that, you class clown you assumed and looked stupid.
 

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I see both sides. But ultimately I look at marriage as a partnership. It generally takes you to another level because you're not just living for yourself. I can think of few people who are at the top of their game who aren't married. Should you need to be married to do this, nah...but it just so happens folks that are married perform better at their goals.
 

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OP is beating a dead horse. GMB and HOH is just running up the score now.


In 2019 only 30% of African Americans were married compared to 48% of all Americans. Half or 50% of African Americans have never been married compared to 34% of all Americans.

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