RamDam, you are a smart guy, but you also work for someone, meaning you can be fired at any such time. You might still say that you can own your own business. Now when people say this, they still don't realize they are working for someone else (the consumer) and that any point in time, the consumer may cease business with their company.
If either/or of these happen, are you then not intelligent/driven? Even in your current state, are you implying that your current success level was/is not the work of something more than how smart or driven you were?
The way you all underestimate your upbringing is crazy.
You're successful but you can't seem to see shades of grey, only extremes?

How convenient.