What’s The Point Of Being The Breadwinner in a Relationship

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If you don’t get to enjoy the perks? And then y’all shun em for enjoying the perks :dahell:
 

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Bragging rights and opens you up to another pool of women who only date "providers"




I'm assuming breadwinner means paying all the bills instead of meaning the person who just has a higher salary
 

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Ain’t no perks. That’s just the way it is. 9/10 the man gonna take care of more than 50% of the financial load. Even if you got a shorty who independent and can take care of they self. It’s how the world work. It’s how it’s been and how it always will be. Women cost money. If you got a good woman you supposed to take care of her within your means. When she ain’t your girl no more, all that shyt stop. That’s how that work. If you out here just spending money on every bytch then you just a duck
 
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i haven't been a "breadwinner" as i have never taken care of anybody financially, but i have been the bigger bank and there is no perks to that cuz it seems to just be a point of jealousy and resentment for some men. they always seem to start capping about what they have like it's some competition.

but for me the point of making a lot of money is ... it's just the fact of the matter lol. i'm a hustler baby :manny:
 

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Honestly being the breadwinner holds more value to non western woman than it does westernized. Men who are a breadwinners are still not exempt from divorce here. If a woman is not feeling the relationship all around.
 
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