There are a few chicks who want this d but the problem I have is that every chick I ever had a physical relationship with ended up wanting commitment and I already got a girl. Do you tell them you have a girl from the jump? Do you get them hooked and them tell them later? I don't even care if I get caught but I'm still trying to play it smart.
What's the scoop on getting and maintaining a side piece?
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Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
Tell em up front. Real g shyt is let #1 know too. They could be 1a and 1b. Lou Williams was on that shyt for a while. I'm in the process of trying this myself. I got wifey open already. I'm in the process of getting my ex to see the light. 
But I don't think she fully understands the proposition. Gotta ease into it, ya know? She thinks I'm creeping. I guess she can't fathom what I'm trying to put together here. 
Most cats don't think they have the mouth piece to pull something like off so they never try. But that's like saying you can't swim but never been in the water. Practice makes perfect. You'll never know unless you try. Closed mouths don't get fed.
But I don't think she fully understands the proposition. Gotta ease into it, ya know? She thinks I'm creeping. I guess she can't fathom what I'm trying to put together here. Most cats don't think they have the mouth piece to pull something like off so they never try. But that's like saying you can't swim but never been in the water. Practice makes perfect. You'll never know unless you try. Closed mouths don't get fed.
Quiet Magician
Superstar
Tell em up front. Real g shyt is let #1 know too. They could be 1a and 1b. Lou Williams was on that shyt for a while. I'm in the process of trying this myself. I got wifey open already. I'm in the process of getting my ex to see the light.
Most cats don't think they have the mouth piece to pull something like off so they never try. But that's like saying you can't swim but never been in the water. Practice makes perfect. You'll never know unless you try. Closed mouths don't get fed.
So you want to openly cheat on your wife? Is that it?
Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
Oh my girl would NEVER be open to sharing me. I need to be covert.Tell em up front. Real g shyt is let #1 know too. They could be 1a and 1b. Lou Williams was on that shyt for a while. I'm in the process of trying this myself. I got wifey open already. I'm in the process of getting my ex to see the light.
Most cats don't think they have the mouth piece to pull something like off so they never try. But that's like saying you can't swim but never been in the water. Practice makes perfect. You'll never know unless you try. Closed mouths don't get fed.
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
You got a wife.How do you "openly" cheat on someone?
You got laws you abide by,breh.
infidelity aint one of'em.
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
Tell'em you got a main, you not looking for more emotional obligations..yall can just have some fun.
Or make side chicks think they're the main squeeze until you get tired of'em.
Oh chicks wanting a commitment from the jump=trouble.
Let em know from jump street. Keep shyt 1 hunnid. I did that with a chick a few years ago and shyt was cool but I started catchin feelins for the side chick and then shyt ain't really work out.
LadySimone
Banned
Just don't do it. Resist the douche bag energy.
mortuus est
Veteran
Depends how you are as a person but id say get the side piece hooked, no dates, no nice shyt, just keep it friendly sex level
Meh I'm honestly not the type but I have my reasons. She ain't a wife yet so my conscious is clear
LadySimone
Banned
lol can't wait till she reads this
Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
You might need a new chick then. Honestly. If that's something you want you need to let it be known. Then she can decide if she wants to be with the REAL you or not.
You got a wife.
You got laws you abide by,breh.
infidelity aint one of'em.
Never said anything about infidelity, breh.
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
Some people feel that stepping out on your wife whether she knows it or not and is okay with it is still considered cheating or infidelity.Never said anything about infidelity, breh.
im just speaking on the perception of western marriages..