Trust me,
@The Nigerian I definitely have a better sex life than yours.
Lube dries up too, like I said, I own lube too, it's just not for what you're using it for.
You're not exactly educating me on anything.
I distinctly remember your horny goat weed thread, so don't take it as a slight against you.
That thread taught me that we're all wired different.
I agree, but a lot of it has to do with biology and estrogen levels. Some women have high levels, some women have low ones and the older we become, the lower they become.
It doesn't help if the woman is not attracted to the guy though. For instance, I don't require foreplay. By seeing my particular sex partner my brain already associates pleasure to him, and so by the time the clothes come off, I'm ready to go. Foreplay is just an added bonus. But that is because it is
him.
Also, shame of the body and sexual pleasure also contributes to this. In this society women's urges are seen as wrong , and so it leads to a lot of women not knowing their bodies well. I personally only know of only a handful of other women who have experienced orgasms and that in itself is sad.