What's up with this generation of men thinking online dating is the only way of getting laid?

[GodinDaFlesh]

Going to some type of social event, striking up a conversation with a chick you find attractive and asking her out to lunch is a million times easier than meeting a woman online who gets hundreds of messages from men each day.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

You nikkas not thinking outside the box. You can talk to about 30 women at once online if you wanted too.
Guys wouldn't do this shyt if it didn't work. Dudes in this thread are acting like women don't fukk dudes off the internet.

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

I never was big on it.

Myspace and mocospace tho>>>>>

But theres nothing like pushing up on a breezy in real life.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I'm about to let it be known about my stance towards online dating...

I'm seriously considering deleting any and all profiles I have for the following reasons...

1)In order to fully utilize a good site, you have to pay... Something that I'm just not willing to do, now or ever. I would rather use my Facebook or another social media utility for dating if necessary.

2)Most online dating sites, consists of mostly non-black women who, typically, don't date black men(which is their prerogative).

3)On the Afro-centric based sites and black women on white sites, the selection of quality black females in my peer group is very small... perhaps location is a big reason why this is such... Even if I did move to a larger city, this next reason is the main reason why I don't want to even entertain women from online sites.....

4)A lot of the decent black women on these sites have a BOLDLY stated preference for "NO BLACK MEN."

5)I don't like the perception that people that use online dating(whether for sincere reasons or debauchery)are the bottom of the barrel; the undesirables, the lames, the broke bums, ect.

As I type this, I'm debating whether or not to erase the last profile I have...

(1) Why is that?

(2) I get where you're coming from, but don't you think that's some insecurity showing on your part. No disrespect.

 

[Blackout]

@7Revo. See what i was saying

 

[DarkHorse23]

You nikkas not thinking outside the box. You can talk to about 30 women at once online if you wanted too.
Guys wouldn't do this shyt if it didn't work. Dudes in this thread are acting like women don't fukk dudes off the internet.

Not if you don't fit their "physical" ideal(that can apply in the real world too but stay with me here) I said this before, women are even MORE picky online. I know what i'm talking about. Lets use myself for example, I had a match account set up once, and reading all the decent women's profile, they all wanted "5'11 or taller". Now being 5'5 what do i do? Lie? ....say i'm 5'7(it's the cut off for desirable height and on paper it doesn't seem short like 5'6) and then meet a woman and she look at you like . Or be honest and keep 5'5-5'6 and be sitting by the computer like because you're screened out or they automatically dismiss you. Nah i just say "fukk it" and do it the old fashion way. Get out there in the real world and approach where my confidence and personality can give me a fighting chance. My thoughts....

 

[Cowboyz89]

I learned this freshman year of college. Geting no response from a bytch on facebook but then bagging her at a party a few days later.
Everybody tryna act cool online rather than living life
Getting rejected in person is more of a rush/confidence booster then getting a number off social media
real interaction>>>>>>>

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Seriously..
Anytime i visit these women trouble threads, dudes always say the same thing.

"Getting laid in this generation is impossible, i never get matches on tinder"

What ever happened to networking, brehs?

All you need is some outgoing friends who gets around and invites you to parties,cookouts,kickbacks,family events etc.. then everything will happen in a chain reaction. You get introduce to some chicks, you get their numbers,call them up and kick it with them, if something is bound to happen then it will happen . Keep their numbers just incase you have some of your homeboys over so you can call her up and tell her to bring her homegirls so you can meet more chicks

Tinder,pof,okcupid etc should be your second source of getting p*ssy. Like if you're bored and want to press your luck, nikkaz out here acting as if the internet is the only way to get laid

Go out there and feast,brehs .

you say it like its so easy, breh not all of us are blessed with basic foundations like that

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

(1) Why is that?

(2) I get where you're coming from, but don't you think that's some insecurity showing on your part. No disrespect.

eh theres a lot of truth to it,online dating is extra tough if you arent a white dude

 

[Wild self]

You're asking this on a website full of dudes with no social skills who are in their 20s and 30s and still have no idea how to talk to women.

Thread starter wouldn't even drop proper game to the dudes that lack social skill. Straight up kicking people down.

 

[Wild self]

Also might have to do with a society trying to punish men for being men while simultaneously demanding they "man up" and take initiative

Being a millenial nikka is mad confusing

This generation of men are hermits who've had their social skills undermined by the internet.

Ie: face to face interaction in real life is weird for them

I blame increase on standardized testing and the imbalance of young adults having any kind of free time. You supposed to work in demanding low paying jobs, go study hard ass subjects for the underpaid STEM majors, be super social, and be swagged out all at the same time.

 

[STFARN]

Real Life Interaction encourages good human behavior
If you can't talk to girls in real life
Nothing more satisfying than knowing you got it in public
Still haven't been rejected in public
fukking girls online and online dating won't lead to better social skills in public
Most girls you meeting online are
Most girls use online dating because of personality and physical flaws that men aren't attracted to when they see them in public
You're basically fukking and hooking up with girls that have mental or physical baggage
There's a reason a girl on a dating site is using a dating site
And I been there when I was a fatass with serious social awkwardness..
Nothing more satisfying than improving your social life step by step and trial by error
The type of people who are connected in life or got those social benefits of meeting people are the same people that go out of their way to meet and 'network' with people
When I get free shyt because I made a 'friend' at a store
When I can get work anywhere I go because I got the gift of gab
Team no lackin we outchea boy

 

[Quiet Magician]

Going to some type of social event, striking up a conversation with a chick you find attractive and asking her out to lunch is a million times easier than meeting a woman online who gets hundreds of messages from men each day.

I disagree. With online dating you just send out a bunch of messages and whatever one looks decent enough, you go on a date. Also they know what the deal is and so you can get those sugar walls a lot faster.

 

[b. woods]

Also, you run the risk of getting catfished by some weirdo like "He who shall not be named" by trying to hook up online.

 

[STFARN]

I blame increase on standardized testing and the imbalance of young adults having any kind of free time. You supposed to work in demanding low paying jobs, go study hard ass subjects for the underpaid STEM majors, be super social, and be swagged out all at the same time.

Everyone has time to be social and carry swag
If you don't have the ability to multitask all those responsibilities I don't know what to tell you
I can't feel for people who make excuses for why they can't improve upon their social life