They want us to keep thinking about ourselves as n*****s and bytches. And not as kings and queens.
Thats why they do this.
Being pro-black in this society is seen as being anti-everything else (american, police, authority, government, capitalism, mainstream, etc) and people like the OP long to fit in and be accepted by the greater society but unfortunately for them that will never happen. They do everything to fit in and be a good "citizen" and try to not to rock the boat. And shame others for being pro black and wanting collective success cause theyve been convinced by the greater society that doing so is "racist" (where as every other group is race first and spends their money with each other and works to build within their own community). They think black pride is equal to white pride as if being black and proud is about hating other races like white pride is. Nah. They are ignorant of history and think they can be just like everybody else in America no matter how many Mike Browns and Darren Wilsons we read about in the news and how much History books they read. They suppress the reality of our situation cause they would like to be ignorant to the situation but that blissful ignorance has been gone. Once you take that red pill there is no going back.