Whats wrong with a girl being a "hoe"?

[mortuus est]

in my opinion a hoe is someone who is in a relationship and is being reckless , male and female

now as humans we just need to get over the whole double standards thing "oh but why can men fukk 10 females in a week and not be a hoe" well thats just how life is, when a family home is in danger who do you expect to save the house hold? the man right?

men and females just have things different, life, deal with it.

plus in this day and age who who wants to walk hand in hand with a hoe for people to laugh at you? ive been around guys who have wifed up smuts with bad rep and been around the other guys who laugh at these couples as they walk across the road

 

[BlackBieber]

I see what you are saying but having sex, in of itself is not what makes some one a hoe. To me a hoe is someone who will sleep with multiple people, no real standards or caring about consequences. Wether that be all or some of these: stds, babies, reputation, broken homes, whatever.

On here there are a lot of things that won't make someone wifey materiel . The double standard will always be there and people will always have their own definition of what a hoe is. Your right too low self esteem and other issues contribute to a lot of "hoes". That is a whole other sad topic.

I feel you. But I feel like in reality the term hoe is thrown around too easily.

Allow me to post a song by my nikka Ab-Soul:



To my nikkas having bytches, it’s what you just do
To the bytches having nikkas, this what a slut do
My auntie told me always treat my lady right
My uncle told me only love ‘em for a night
You can see the immediate disconnection
Between a man and a woman, the reason for regression
For example, you heard of Amber Cole
But you don’t know that nikka that was getting dome
I’m saying we heard of Amber Cole
But we don’t know that lil’ nikka that was getting dome

 

[Will Ross]

A woman would never ask what is wrong with a man being broke.
but you got men asking what is wrong with a girl being a hoe.
Stop feeding into the bullshyt that women want things equal.

 

[BlackBieber]

STDs for one plus all those kids out of wedlock.

I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

The bolded is how that double standard affects you. You felt the immediate need to defend yourself before getting called a hoe.

 

[kingdizzy01]

hoes are cool, they got their purpose, entertainment. im not going to tarnish my bloodline by reproducing with an inferior human though.

 

[Arishok]

The bolded is how that double standard affects you. You felt the immediate need to defend yourself before getting called a hoe.

What double standard? Be a hoe all you want just protect yourself from STDs and b*stard childen. Plus everyone has a different definition of a hoe, I say a girl that sleeps around is one while my friend thinks a girl who sleeps with men they are not in a relationship is one.

 

[BlackBieber]

What double standard? Be a hoe all you want just protect yourself from STDs and b*stard childen.

You think a nikka would even question or get questioned if a month is too soon before smashing? Or even feel the need to explain himself?

 

[Arishok]

You think a nikka would even question or get questioned if a month is too soon before smashing? Or even feel the need to explain himself?

No but what the next person got to do with something I said two months ago?

 

[Elle Driver]

I've always found it funny when people say someone doesn't respect themselves, it's like how the fukk would you know, it's relative to them. It's called self respect for fukk's sake.

 

[BlackBieber]

No but what the next person got to do with something I said two months ago?

It shows the hypocritical perception of women and men sex lives in society, that's all.

 

[Arishok]

It shows the hypocritical perception of women and men sex lives in society, that's all.

Oh ok, I get you now but the only problem with hoes in general (men and women alike) are, what I said before, STDs and b*stard children. If you protecting yourself from that, have your fun.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

So, being a hoe means sleeping with someone you're not in a relationship with or what? What definition is being used here?

 

[Arishok]

I've always found it funny when people say someone doesn't respect themselves, it's like how the fukk would you know, it's relative to them. It's called self respect for fukk's sake.

If anything they are respecting themselves by saying "fukk what anyone else thinks, I'm living my life and if I want sex I'm going to get it."

 

[BlackBieber]

I've always found it funny when people say someone doesn't respect themselves, it's like how the fukk would you know, it's relative to them. It's called self respect for fukk's sake.

Exactly. As long as she doesn't allow men to do things to her that she doesn't want them to do, or pursues sexual relationships for the wrong reasons(fill a void, feel loved etc.), the value of a woman that has sex a lot doesn't decrease in my mind. shyt, logically it should even increase it. She kno how to fukk good right?

 

[BlackBieber]

If anything they are respecting themselves by saying "fukk what anyone else thinks, I'm living my life and if I want sex I'm going to get it."

we out here empowering hoes