I like cute/nerdy Black women. Just don't like hood chicks it doesn't mean I have a no nikka policy.
What's Y'all LEAST Favorite Type Of Women To Date? (The One's You Would Get You A Murder Charge)
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Cheaters/liars...
one in the same i guess you could say
one in the same i guess you could say
Sorry to hear that don't give up hope though not all women are psycho lol ...what was she like when you first met her
When I first met her...I met her thru my frat bro sister. She was told I was gainfully employed, educated, etc. She told me she has a degree in criminal justice and that she went to 3 colleges and finished at a local university(red flag because when her mom came over and my parents were there...her mom told my dad she finished from another university but it wasn't the school my then fiance said). She also said her degree burned up in one of her mom's rental properties that was on fire. I don't mind dating a girl who doesn't have a degree. I have two cousins who don't have degrees but making that bread. I just think its lame as fuk to put someone down for getting a master's and not valuing education but she lying and acting like she has a degree. Just stand with ur opinion and keep it 100. I know people who are smart without advanced education and some who have degrees lack common sense and aren't good employees.
She was a deputy sheriff. That job doesn't require a degree but many criminal justice majors go into law enforcement. She was really into me at first and I wanted to finish my masters because my mom wanted me to and so did I. I know being a black man in a majority white office/company means possible strikes against me. I wanted to be attractive to companies just in case I want to go to another company for a better offer or if I get caught in a layoff.
She kept telling me why I'm going to school if the masters doesn't give me an immediate promotion. She kept putting me down for going back to school and saying why my mom want me to get my masters if she or my dad doesn't have one.
She and her family said my mom shouldve been more worried about me finding a wife and having a family at my age (30 at the time). Then she started to talk about my mom a lot and said I didn't defend her when my mom told her to wait until we get married to have children and to wear a certain type of wedding dress because she is top heavy and kinda chubby. My ex is an opinionated outspoken strong willed female and my mom is herself and my mom is overbearing and controlling. So those two clashed hard. My dad is quiet and laid back so he come off as easier to deal with.
I was happy to date because it's been a while since I been in a serious relationship but I rushed into things too fast and it was because of her. She convinced me to buy a home and she would pay a small portion. It was like a 70/30 type deal but she didn't come thru with that at all. I was ok with paying 60-70 since a man supposed to be a provider but with today's situation and women's rights...it's hard to do unless I make six figures. I tried to talk to her many times about it but its like she would mentally manipulate me and throw it back on me that I want her to take care of me. I'm thinking no bytch I just want u to get a job and help out. She quit her job because she didn't like working in the jail and had bad headaches and other health issues that I later found out about. It's a lot to this story. I could type all day lol.
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1) The type of woman that can find the fee for the club but not the money for the electric...
Materialism amongst broke people is keeping them in a cycle of poverty.
Knowing what you need rather then want, is the 1st step to building a stable future.
2) The type of woman that is proud she don't cook, or try to look after her partner.
I'm tired of telling them types, your p*ssy aint golden. Get with the cooking, cleaning etc being a forever child is NOT cute.
Materialism amongst broke people is keeping them in a cycle of poverty.
Knowing what you need rather then want, is the 1st step to building a stable future.
2) The type of woman that is proud she don't cook, or try to look after her partner.
I'm tired of telling them types, your p*ssy aint golden. Get with the cooking, cleaning etc being a forever child is NOT cute.
Cool. For me, I need a girl that can be potential wife material though.i like em hood, nerdy, and cute too
i like em period
1) The type of woman that can find the fee for the club but not the money for the electric...
Materialism amongst broke people is keeping them in a cycle of poverty.
Knowing what you need rather then want, is the 1st step to building a stable future.
2) The type of woman that is proud she don't cook, or try to look after her partner.
I'm tired of telling them types, your p*ssy aint golden. Get with the cooking, cleaning etc being a forever child is NOT cute.
Yes she was a headache and a financial and mental burden on me. I still can't understand why she choose me of all people if she wanted a man to provide her the big home to live comfortably.My goodness me she sounds like such a headacheDid she have any redeeming qualities at all lol
I'm sorry you had to go through such a mess
hopefully the next one will be 100x better
Wouldn't it make sense to find a man with a six figure job? Why not go where the well is overflowing? I told her I wasn't at the level to pay for the mortgage and other bills along with everything else and it's like she just couldn't grasp how much this burdened and stressed me. I didn't need that BS and it ruined my life and gonna take me so long to recover. I just don't get people's especially women's thinking when it comes to this. If u know a man only brings home a certain amount...why fuk up his credit and finances and then when unplanned shyt happens that require money...he up shyts creek.
She is a good actor and had people fooled. That's one quality about her. She even talked about me and my parents to family members who aren't that cool with my mom. I feel that my family could've at least talked to me about the situation before talking about me and my parents to her.
Another issue is we both the only child and she is very spoiled and I'm very laidback and quiet. Her mom always gives her money and her family hold her in a high regard. She was also smaller and very attractive growing up in high school and was popular in high school so she has this mentality where she feels entitled, she feels she is the shyt and she quick to put someone down. I realize now this wasnt a good match for me.
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sucks to hear bruh. After you told her you couldn't afford that lifestyle, why did you still go down that path anyway?
She and her mom promised to give me 30% and I would pay 70%. She didn't pay me hardly anything towards the bills. Then I had unplanned unfortunate dental and health issues as well as other unplanned expenses and then my parents freaked out. They were like why isn't she helping u. Why u working 2 jobs always tired and still struggling. I messed up by taking her word.
That was your error bruh. I could spot a lie like that a mile away.
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Remember everything happens for a reason... hopefully the right girl will come along soon.