What's your idea of a perfect life?

CinnaSlim

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Being born into a stable and supportive household where both parents are consistently involved in their child's life.

Growing up with needs supplied and able to pursue interests. Being taught morals and values but also how to love yourself, flaws failures and all. Tons of encouragement, rather than expectations.

Train and get disciplined in a skill or talent throughout adolescence. Turn it into a career.

Date and maintain friendships while establishing your independence.

Find a suitable mate, save up and start a family. Pass down wisdom and values. Contribute to community

Eventually retire while continuing to practice interests and refine skills. Become a mentor.

Die in sleep while leaving a sizable inheritance and positive legacy.

Perfect doesn't mean you dont go through problems but hopefully you learn from then and have a great support system.
 

KinksandCoils

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Locker room
Slightly chubby wife, with large breasts, DD or better.
2 story home in the suburbs of Raleigh or Charlotte, NC
Lead Network or Desktop Analyst Job
3 kids, 2 boys, 1 girl...the girl being the middle child
A Dog, preferably a Rottweiler
Basketball Goal above the garage


That's my perfect life/future
:lupe:


As far as dying, I'd be ok with going out anyway but suddenly. I'd rather put up a fight with whatever ailment then to die suddenly, out of the blue. As for being remembered, just remember me as a good guy. Not necessarily any particular accomplishments. Just to have people say:
"You know Smoke died"
"Yeah, one thing I can say about him he was a good dude"
Is that u in your avi?
 

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The ups and downs and surprises is what makes the shyt interesting, treat it like a videogame and enjoy the experience. A lot of what we think happiness is, is an illusion mostly by the media selling us a dream.

Knowing or planning how it should go would make life boring and prob wouldn't turn out how you think.







:russ: @ that bullshyt I just typed









A billion is all I need to be happy - I'd prob spend half the year on a yatch snorting coke off model chicks' a$$holes, drunk all day, partying to death :blessed:
 

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My dream life:

- a genuinely happy marriage where my spouse and I are best friends. I don't want to be those men who end up with a woman they haven't slept with in years or barely talk to. I want to remain happy and content in my relationship long term and not have to resort to infidelity etc.

- the time flexibility to spend as much time with my family as possible, I'm at that point where my parents have accumulated the wealth they need and are going back home to Africa after 20+ years here. I'd like to live a life where I had the flexibility to see them as much as possible and spend as much time with my family as possible.

- i'd work a job which allows me to support and provide for the needs of my family without compromising my time with them.

- I'd raise two children into strong black people and be involved in certain sectors as an advocate and mentor.

- I'd retire with my princess and we would travel and go on cruises while my adult kids begin their lives.

- I'd follow this with my love.

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Always money money money with you people. What are going to do with all that money? Count it all day while you masturbate?
I think having a stable financial foundation is the start of having a "happy" life, imo. I would have the option to do things like travel, donate or even help out friends and family in ways that I couldn't now and those are things that would make me happy. Even money to pursue a passion or degree without worrying about how your light bill is going to get paid makes things more enjoyable.
 

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I think having a stable financial foundation is the start of having a "happy" life, imo. I would have the option to do things like travel, donate or even help out friends and family in ways that I couldn't now and those are things that would make me happy. Even money to pursue a passion or degree without worrying about how your light bill is going to get paid makes things more enjoyable.

Great point.
 

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I think having a stable financial foundation is the start of having a "happy" life, imo. I would have the option to do things like travel, donate or even help out friends and family in ways that I couldn't now and those are things that would make me happy. Even money to pursue a passion or degree without worrying about how your light bill is going to get paid makes things more enjoyable.
Travel where? What do you do when you get there?

What degree(s)? Why?
 
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