Whats your take on the meaning of "bad boy"
- Thread starter King Khufu
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When we say women like bad boys we are talking about dudes really living a street lifestyle.
Not dudes that have a tv image of a bad boy. We don’t judge each other like the outside world judges us.
Solo ✧✦✧
King of the eXoticals. "FIRsT and LAst wARNiNg"
Every body isn't talking from your perspective. My post was directed at people in general who use the term.
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
They want someones who rebellious and thumbs their nose at authority..
I was
breh. We good.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
It's really what everyone is attracted to. The Erykah Badu factor.
A person who knows what they want and has the courage to go after it. A person who seemingly is unapologetically themselves and despite what others think and gives you the courage to do and be what you want.
The problem is when people see the surface level facade of the bad boy/rebel and feels that that means s/he is authentic and courageous. When it can mean that that person is hiding pain, hurt, trauma, lack of trust, lack of respect for self and others.
Then comes in the healer/savior complex where people want to
for the bad boy/girl and show them another way and soften their edges til they lose the very spark of what made them attractive in the first place.
A person who knows what they want and has the courage to go after it. A person who seemingly is unapologetically themselves and despite what others think and gives you the courage to do and be what you want.
The problem is when people see the surface level facade of the bad boy/rebel and feels that that means s/he is authentic and courageous. When it can mean that that person is hiding pain, hurt, trauma, lack of trust, lack of respect for self and others.
Then comes in the healer/savior complex where people want to
for the bad boy/girl and show them another way and soften their edges til they lose the very spark of what made them attractive in the first place.
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
Who cares about what women want and who cares about bad boys? Successful men only worry about themselves.
Thurgood Thurston III
#LLNB #LLLB #E4R x 2 🖤🖤🖤🆚🌀🌀
This. "bad boy" to women doesn't necessarily mean "thug". It just means a guy who's emotionally unavailable which is a sign of a guy that has options.
Thugs tend to be emotionally unavailable. And nothing dries up a p*ssy more than neediness. I harp on about women loving prettyboys, but even they get left in the dust for being needy. It's the number one way to lose a woman aside from straight up not fukking her.
Mastamimd
Ain't shyt
Whenever you get to a point to where you need them more than they need you it's over.
This is why these topics can get deep. I know chicks who know they man ain't shyt & need her. They love that dominance & control. THEY BE THE WORST. One of the baddest chicks I met (wanted to fukk so bad) had a clingy deadbeat lame. But for some reason she wanted to remain faithful.
