What's your view on Long Distance Relationships?

[KritNC]

Depends on the person, for me it was perfect. Every time I saw my girl felt like vacation. When you are far apart you appreciate each others company more and don't get frustrated with each other.

But after 3 years of it we broke up because its so much work and as much as I liked it you can't keep those long distance relationships up unless you have concrete plans to move in together.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Over all I'd say they don't work. It takes two very special kind of people and feelings for each other to make them work. I've witness 3 people in over 6 year LD relationships work. They are all happily married right now.


Over all most people do have the will power or dedication for it to work. The level of trust has to be cray, but hell most people can't trust people they are living with.

 

[posterchild336]

I'm in Canada right now because of one we see each other all the time it's expensive but if it's real it can work... She is moving out to canada next month to come be with me.. I had one in the past and it didn't work but it's because I wasn't really into the girl too much

 

[KritNC]

I think Phonte says it best

I want a girl, when I want a girl
And when I don't want a girl
I want a girl who understands that

@ 2:30




fukk it ima post the whole verse because its one of my favorites

[spolier][Phonte]
Sometimes I think I'm from another world
When I'm trynna tell a woman just exactly where I stand that
I want a girl, when I want a girl
And when I don't want a girl
I want a girl who understands that
And that's some hard shyt to explain
To a woman that's in love with you
It's a pitiful thing
Until I had to figure
That I don't wanna play around
But I don't wanna settle down
And that's a man's dilemma
Cause every man remembers
How his Daddy and his Uncles did it
Cause more than likely that's the way they're gonna do it
I know it sound fukked up and most won't admit it
But yo, I gotta face it cause I know I'm living through it
Cause when the party stops and nikkas get old
And the chain and the cars and the houses get sold
And that
Other side of the bed gets cold
You don't wanna be alone
So girl I'm trynna hold you
[/spolier]

 

[vicioustalk]

It rly depends on how comitted they are to each other... It can work if u want it to.... Mind over matter

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

would never do it again

 

[KritNC]

would never do it again

why?

 

[Smoke]

would never do it again

What happened?

 

[TRUEST]

its already been said. it only works if both parties are working towards the ultimate goal of being together.

i'm in a situation like this. ol girl really likes me and i like her too. but she's way older than i am. and i've had the talk with her that nothing is going to happen with us. but i must admit, im happy when she's with me. she doesn't fight with me. she never yells. i can be moody, disrespectful, short-tempered and she just ignores my tantrums. she does whatever i want. she's flown across country multiple times to see me, even when she was jobless. she's just about the only girl, besides the women in my family that i love to spend money on.

but on the flip side, i'm a guy and i like to sleep with multiple women. but she aint goto know though lol

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

why?

personal experience, too much pressure, she was too jealous and insecure.

I'm not gonna be interrogated every time i dont call when i'm expected to, its too easy to fall into a pattern with your significant other. Once the pattern is broken the other person thinks automatically you're being dishonest.

 

[Smoke]

im happy when she's with me. she doesn't fight with me. she never yells. i can be moody, disrespectful, short-tempered and she just ignores my tantrums. she does whatever i want. she's flown across country multiple times, even when she was jobless. she's just about the only girl, besides the women in my family that i love to spend money on.

Breh 2 breh....you told her nothign was gonna happen. Sounds like it's already happened tho

 

[CrimsonTider]

Them military marriages are true definition.Even a close distance relationship you still don't know what's going on.As for ? Nope

Military marriages don't work

 

[Arabial Knight]

They don't work

Believe me I just got outta a 6 yr relationship and we were only away from each other for 3 months.
6 yrs of my life wasted just like that.

She couldn't stay away from that new dikk eh? Condolences

 

[Kenny West]

We can keep in touch if she's real cool otherwise

 

[KritNC]

personal experience, too much pressure, she was too jealous and insecure.

I'm not gonna be interrogated every time i dont call when i'm expected to, its too easy to fall into a pattern with your significant other. Once the pattern is broken the other person thinks automatically you're being dishonest.

Yea if anyone is jealous/insecure throw that shyt out the window, its hard enough with out those issues anyway.