What's your view on Long Distance Relationships?

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I'm not sure about these replies the way yall blow up women's pm boxes on here



I couldn't do it myself
 

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Been there, done that. Would not do it again. I remember before I had an unlimited cell plan, it was free nights & weekends after 7, I would use ALL my daytime minutes talking to her by the middle of the month sometimes. The time and distance apart was too much to deal with.
 

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She couldn't stay away from that new dikk eh? Condolences :mjcry:

She used the "you need to get your shyt together" excuse.

You know what the ironic thing is?
I moved out here to get a job after graduating college so that I could build a foundation for our future to be together and get married.

Aka getting my shyt together

3 weeks after the break up I get a call for a job offer.:mjcry:

She couldn't wait 3 more weeks:bryan:
 

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it can work if two people want to be together and there is a end goal of one person moving

if not then

I've been in one was 4 hours away and it was great didn't work out in the end but distance wasn't the deciding factor
 

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I'm in Canada right now because of one we see each other all the time it's expensive but if it's real it can work... She is moving out to canada next month to come be with me.. I had one in the past and it didn't work but it's because I wasn't really into the girl too much

I was just aout to @ you because I remember you were in one
 

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I'm in Canada right now because of one we see each other all the time it's expensive but if it's real it can work... She is moving out to canada next month to come be with me.. I had one in the past and it didn't work but it's because I wasn't really into the girl too much

how lng were you together and what was the distant? and longest time apart?
 

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She used the "you need to get your shyt together" excuse.

You know what the ironic thing is?
I moved out here to get a job after graduating college so that I could build a foundation for our future to be together and get married.

Aka getting my shyt together

3 weeks after the break up I get a call for a job offer.:mjcry:

She couldn't wait 3 more weeks:bryan:

technically you won breh
 

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I'm in a great one. We've done long distance in various cities a few times due to career opportunities. First move was a couple of hours away after graduation, and we still met up every 2 weeks. Then I moved to his city and lived together for a few years. Second one started in early 2013 and is out of state, so less visits, but still fun.

It works for us cause both of us have independent personalities with our own separate hobbies and social life. We've never had trust issues, we are both pretty selective and ethical people, don't do social media, are supportive of the work grind, and the honeymoon period seems to have lasted years.
 

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Can't say it's not possible because I've never been in one. Knowing myself I wouldn't get with a girl that stayed far away unless that girl was from the Coli
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I don't know how I'd handle it if I was in a relationship and either of us had to move for other extenuating reasons.
 
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