When a B*tch Gives You The Number Then Proceeds to Ignore You Unappreciation Thread

[Cool Dr. Money]

Lol @ nikkas saying "offer to buy her a drink" that's that simp ass shyt dimes love. I've had dimes tell me many times that they just wait around a bar a wait for the first simp ass beta male to buy them drinks, then there a line of them. They dont spend a dime all night. I've given dimes the many times when it comes to buying them drinks and they end eating out of my palm all night. That's the alpha male shyt girls are attracted to


This is that real shyt that's tested in the field and perfected

yeah buying drinks is a bad idea. all that does is get her drunk for the nikkah thats waitin to smash after she leaves the club

 

[blackzeus]

Lol @ nikkas saying "offer to buy her a drink" that's that simp ass shyt dimes love. I've had dimes tell me many times that they just wait around a bar a wait for the first simp ass beta male to buy them drinks, then there a line of them. They dont spend a dime all night. I've given dimes the many times when it comes to buying them drinks and they end eating out of my palm all night. That's the alpha male shyt girls are attracted to

This is that real shyt that's tested in the field and perfected

heel Bully in WWE?

face Bubba in WWE?


he is probably the best heel in TNA right now, which also speaks to how weak the TNA roster is

Do you bag dimes before or after you watch TNA and WWE?

Tired of these fake azz nikkas man

 

[screenname01]

lol to each his own, my logic is basically testing to see how mature a woman is after going for something she likes...I know as a man how to get what I want, thats not the issue....the issue is looking for the woman mature enough to not fit the social ques, and go for what she want period..the best way to screen that is giving them your digits.

man, ban this weak azz crakka!

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Bet if i show up at dat bish's crib wit duct tape, a shovel, some rope, and a Jodeci CD she ain't go ignore me.

 

[Kenny West]

shyt happened to me last week

Bagged this chick at the bar...bytch put her number in my phone and called hers with it and everything

I've initiated conversation (via text ) twice...neither of them shyts went past 4 exchanges. Not even like I was on some bullshyt what's ya name what's ya sign shyt...she"d just stop texting mid convo.

I initiated convo twice...given the 2/3 rule, I aint hitting her up again...If she never initiates convo again...fukk it

 

[Still Benefited]

Givin a number means nuthing neccesarily and not responding means nothing necccesarily....bottomline is sum of these chicks is just busy bruh...wanna hang out with they friends,cousins,juggling convos with 10 other cackling ho's and facebook followers at the same time.....alotta people gettin ignored by her not just you....if she ain't really lookin for a man ya chances are slim and u can cut her off or get in where u fit in til she's less busy....these woman already got dikk in they phone so chances are u won't even be needed for that

Its all about timing and a womans social life....if u meet a loser bytch or just a female who don't have many friends I'm sure if she's interested shell get back to you...meet the social chick who's bored with hangin out with her girls and u catch her around that time then you will have her attention and focus.


But yeah bruh a lot of these chicks just like hangin out with they girls when they young and already got dikk in they phone...your not needed...they'll text u a few times to be nice then get back to they real friends and forget u existed....time for y'all to learn sum women truly just don't want a man at certain times....they not all lookin for the right guy to sweep em off they feet everyday like media would have u think.

Either cut em off or get in where u fit in til you can get in...or find a non social chick with no life if u wanna be responded to in a timely manner,womn come in all different forms....a lot of they form is just rude lol...they've gotten use to gettin so many messages from they girls,family and other dudes and being able to ignore many of them with no consequences....the important people will stay down and ignore gettin ignored

 

[killacal]

shyt happened to me last week

Bagged this chick at the bar...bytch put her number in my phone and called hers with it and everything

I've initiated conversation (via text ) twice...neither of them shyts went past 4 exchanges. Not even like I was on some bullshyt what's ya name what's ya sign shyt...she"d just stop texting mid convo.

I initiated convo twice...given the 2/3 rule, I aint hitting her up again...If she never initiates convo again...fukk it

How is that bagging a chick?

 

[1thouwow]

that feeling of when u give a bytch ur number and she actually calls/text you and she's bout it

did that shyt with this chick my boy at work knew and I never had intentions to do anything with her cause I thought she was feelin' my boy
come to find out she was tryna hook him up with her BFF and I heard thru the grapevine that she was a slore

I was chillin' with her one day and her phone was on the hood of the car so I grabbed it and made fun of it just like random bullshyt phone or whatever and she laughed, so I put my number in her contacts, and as I was leaving I was like

"aye, I put my number in ur phone, don't let it go to waste" and she was giggly as hell

next thing you know I'm at the bar with my boy watching the game and my phone go off, and she text me saying "hey, it's so and so" and we should hang out...

long story short we ended up being fukk buddies for almost a month, before my GF at the time found out I was creeping

Spoiler

white girls is hoes breh

 

[mbewane]

I actually first heard of this "give the number and see if she calls" thing on the Coli, so a couple of weeks ago I was at a bar and waitress was so as i ordered the drinks I started a quick chat and she was with it but I kept it short because well she was working...but I came back two more times and the last time I asked her what's up with a drink together she was like why not next time come earlier I was like naw here's my phone number (I had written it down before). I was quite tipsy and she was fine, so in my mind I felt like why not go all out.

Two days laters she sends me a text to have a drink and then we meet up, end up having three-four drinks, at some point she says she's going to the bar where she works to say hi to her friends, I feel like ok well let's meet up a couple days later and hang out agian she says of course call me, can't wait, blah blah blah

Long story short she never answered to the following phone calls/texts, I'm still ... I actually ended up another evening at the same bar and she was like Hey what's up how are you well take care

So she either wasn't feeling me (even though she did a darn good job at faking it), or the time was then and there, and afterwards she just dropped me from the team. Or some other dude came through those days.

Either way I'm back at square one

 

[Swirv]

That's my whole topic, females play mind games, just because she doesn't text you back does not mean shes giving up on you. There are many ways a female shows interest in a guy, how would you find out if you give up so early? You know why? PRIDE. I don't listen to the rules on this earth on how to deal with women because not all women are the same. Your advice might work on 6 million women, then you have the other 16 million it might not work on. Your cautious will always tell you if shes not interested in you, but then you have the other part with how will you ever know if you give up? Don't think like others, keep an open mind, don't be simple minded, don't let society mind fukk you into thinking everything you read, hear or see is true. My persistence paid off of many times, because you know why? because there is more than 1 female on this earth.

I'm giving you that natural knowledge i was born with, I'm something special. You better listen up youngblood.

You can do all the pursuing & deal with the games. If I make myself available for a woman & she is gonna waste my time with mind games & circles i dont need her. Exactly as u mentioned there are many more women that i can move on to. My approach works for me so i stick to it. I was just curious if others do the same. If i follow u then im being a sheep. Thanks for your perspective though.

 

[Swirv]

Works for me overseas, but I prefer roster building as opposed to too many one night stands. Gotta be careful these days, people walkin' around like STDs ain't sh*t no more.

I hear you 100%. Usually if i chill with a chick first time meeting i try to get a multi faceted convo out of her b4 i decide to hit.

 

[blackzeus]

I actually first heard of this "give the number and see if she calls" thing on the Coli, so a couple of weeks ago I was at a bar and waitress was so as i ordered the drinks I started a quick chat and she was with it but I kept it short because well she was working...but I came back two more times and the last time I asked her what's up with a drink together she was like why not next time come earlier I was like naw here's my phone number (I had written it down before). I was quite tipsy and she was fine, so in my mind I felt like why not go all out.

Two days laters she sends me a text to have a drink and then we meet up, end up having three-four drinks, at some point she says she's going to the bar where she works to say hi to her friends, I feel like ok well let's meet up a couple days later and hang out agian she says of course call me, can't wait, blah blah blah

Long story short she never answered to the following phone calls/texts, I'm still ... I actually ended up another evening at the same bar and she was like Hey what's up how are you well take care

So she either wasn't feeling me (even though she did a darn good job at faking it), or the time was then and there, and afterwards she just dropped me from the team. Or some other dude came through those days.

Either way I'm back at square one

She didn't fake it. She was probably feeling you at first, so that's why she hit you up. Something happened in your conversation on your first date that turned her off. A girl telling you to give her a call sometime when you are sitting across from her is a blowoff 99% of the time. Right when she wanted to leave you for her friends, you should have said cool, ask for the check, kiss her on the cheek, tell her you hope y'all meet up again soon, and keep it moving. Anyway, chalk it to the game, batter up, hit the next one out the park.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

I was gonna come and argue the other way by giving an example of having a bad day or sick, but then I thought, you're absolutely right.

a lot of who we are is unconscious. usually people are on their best behavior when they first meet you but unconsciously they're always dropping clues as to who they really are.

Care to elaborate the bold.

yea alot of that is true but you not really gonna know a whole lot just off a couple convos some men dont reveal their true intentions until after they get the p*ssy some of you are gettin scammed out here by men who just say a whole bunch of things that sound right

Depends on the age and mentality of the individuals involved. Telling by 95% of the responses in this thread most of the men truly don't know what to say, that's why they're being ignored.

So you're telling me a person is more themselves, minus censorship, during the first conversations with a person

That is so far from the truth.

Most people START OFF with censoring themselves, weeding out what is acceptable, and what isn't in not only the conversations, but the times they meet. Then when they find out whether something is acceptable, they will go with it, and push back the unacceptable until later on.

Then, when you've actually fallen for the person, and don't want to leave them because "they're a good person inside" based on your dumb logic of "they reveal themselves in the first couple conversations."

This is all documented...

I read somewhere that females stay in abusive relationships because they believe in what they first met, not the true monster that lived within that finally revealed himself later in the relationship.

A person's true character reveals itself through time. I thought everyone knew that.

Absolutely disagree with the bold.

The rest of your statements has some form of merit but doesn't fit the premise of this thread because the men are having difficultly getting women they're interested in to return something as miniscule as a phone call/text.

If I initially meet a guy, we exchange numbers and converse. He knows nothing about me, I know nothing about him, therefore nothing can be censored. Allow me to elaborate with an example.

Outside of the normal formalities of "how was our day", yada, yada, yada, we HAVE to converse. Let's say I bring up the story about the pastor spreading HIV to members in his congregation; which can lead to several conversations in regards to infidelity, religion, sexual orientation, marriage, etc. (Keep in mind we just exchanged numbers & this one conversation can turn me off to the point that I'd rather not be bothered).

Unbeknownst to you (we just meet) I have a gay uncle who is HIV positive, but you just went on a rampage about homosexuals being disgusting and your fear of individuals who are infected with HIV.

Unbeknownst to you my parents recently got divorced and it's effecting me deeply, but you just made a comment on how men can't be monogamous and your views against marriage.

Unbeknownst to you I'm an agnostic and abhor organized religion, but you're a die hard Christian and feel the need to make up excuses and defend the pastors behavior.

When you have little to no information about the individual you're conversing with it's impossible to "know what they want to hear" or portray yourself to be something that you're not. Had you known the female you were interested in had a gay uncle, her parents were recently divorced and she wasn't religious, yeah you could have been more tactful with your responses.

It takes time for one to become privy to aspects of an individuals life. So once again, what you say can be used against you and make a female lose interest.

 

[Nintendough]

I disagree

sometimes women is shy and will take there time calling.

If I just wanna smash, im tryna do that ASAP

If a woman is "too shy" to put in some work then the give her your number technique has done its job. When a woman puts one of her emotions ahead of being cooperative with you, thats an indicator of combativeness. No self respecting man wants to deal with hang ups.

 

[iMajor]

I remember a bad bytch like 2 months ago gave me her number I hit her up 2 days later.
First day of texting she sent yo boy mad pics and it was all Gucci. Had me with the ....

Literally like a week later she stop texting me and sht and it was getting really good had a nikka like this but that face came from pain of not talking to her since.