When a girl says she has mainly male friends she hangs out with...

[iBrowse]

When I was younger, I thought that I had a lot. I got a bit of an awakening when I moved out of state- a few guys that I considered "friends"- even mutual "friends" with my ex- made some very not subtle comments.

Now when I say an old guy "friend", I mean acquaintance. I have guys from my past that I say hi to when they're around, or we're friends on FB, but I'm not hanging out with them alone or anything. My only true guy friend lives in NY. He has a room in my house any time if he comes to visit. We talk on the phone pretty frequently. He puts me in check when I need it.









Did I mention... he's very gay.

The bold kinda confirms the point of the thread

 

[The Nigerian]

Women with friends PERIOD are straight status.

 

[MikelArteta]

When I was younger, I thought that I had a lot. I got a bit of an awakening when I moved out of state- a few guys that I considered "friends"- even mutual "friends" with my ex- made some very not subtle comments.

Now when I say an old guy "friend", I mean acquaintance. I have guys from my past that I say hi to when they're around, or we're friends on FB, but I'm not hanging out with them alone or anything. My only true guy friend lives in NY. He has a room in my house any time if he comes to visit. We talk on the phone pretty frequently. He puts me in check when I need it.









Did I mention... he's very gay.

a woman has spoken :yul:

 

[MikelArteta]

Well I'm referring to genuine friends. Who only care about friendship. Not the ones that will hope for more. Ones that aren't attracted to u.

doesn't exist

any "guy friend" you have right now thats heterosexual wants to bone you, if you got in a serious relationship they would dissappear

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

a woman has spoken :yul:

I can only speak for myself. My man has several female friends. Pretty much ends your theory there.

 

[KinksandCoils]

doesn't exist

any "guy friend" you have right now thats heterosexual wants to bone you, if you got in a serious relationship they would dissappear

Not if they aren't attracted to me. But I agree if they are than you are right....

They don't disappear though

 

[MikelArteta]

I can only speak for myself. My man has several female friends. Pretty much ends your theory there.

@Tree-0-Three

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

@Tree-0-Three

Not everyone fits into your little preconceived boxes, my fellow poster.

 

[MikelArteta]

Not everyone fits into your little preconceived boxes, my fellow poster.

so your ok with him going out with one of his female friends, just watching the game or a movie at her apartment

 

[Ohene]

doesn't exist

any "guy friend" you have right now thats heterosexual wants to bone you, if you got in a serious relationship they would dissappear

meh...theres one chick who i would never smash but still talk to lshe has always had a bf really. My friends thought she liked me but I was like man she loves her dude and i aint interested

just not sexually attracted to her but as far as woman are concerned she is actually cool/has a personality and is very domestic.Her bf has got a good one. She's Annoying as shyt though.

Then again I wouldnt say were friends in the same way me and my best friends from HS/Elementary are.

 

[Thegospel]

It means you should try to be one of her friends.

 

[MikelArteta]

meh...theres one chick who i would never smash but still talk to lshe has always had a bf really. My friends thought she liked me but I was like man she loves her dude and i aint interested

just not sexually attracted to her but as far as woman are concerned she is actually cool/has a personality and is very domestic.Her bf has got a good one. She's Annoying as shyt though.

Then again I wouldnt say were friends in the same way me and my best friends from HS/Elementary are.

just because you get shot 9 times and lives makes it the exception not the rule

 

[Thegospel]

It's only a red flag to nikkas with no game.

 

[Ohene]

brehs dont worry these women will get it eventually.

just because you get shot 9 times and lives makes it the exception not the rule

yea i like i said she considered us friends but to me it was just a chick i knew until further notice. I cant see myself every putting a girl on the same level as my actual friends. Girls are simply too self-absorbed, unreliable and frankly ANNOYING to do so.

I remember having to show my exgirlfriend that dudes she thought were friends were trying to fukk. So naiive. It wasnt until she told them she had a bf among other things and they stop messaging her that she realized. Girl came to me and told me i was right like it wasnt obvious before

 

[MikelArteta]

brehs dont worry these women will get it eventually.



yea i like i said she considered us friends but to me it was just a chick i knew until further notice. I cant see myself every putting a girl on the same level as my actual friends. Girls are simply too self-absorbed, unreliable and frankly ANNOYING to do so.

I remember having to show my exgirlfriend that dudes she thought were friends were trying to fukk. So naiive. It wasnt until she told them she had a bf among other things and they stop messaging her that she realized. Girl came to me and told me i was right like it wasnt obvious before

its shocking how oblivious women are