When a woman says...

[Strapped]

@Caca-faat
@Gloxina
@HarlemHottie
I think she's cheating & knows she ain't sh!t

 

[MajesticLion]

 

[Elle Seven]

Maybe your fellow coli brehs are accurate in their inferences, here, OP.

If it makes you feel any better, my very first boyfriend said some iteration of all three to me decades ago, and that relationship did not work out.

Perhaps the intention behind these words is not gender-specific after all.

 

[Boogie]

You’re cooked or about to be cooked.

Find your exit.

She got her back blown out or about to

 

[HarlemHottie]

@Caca-faat
@Gloxina
@HarlemHottie
I think she's cheating & knows she ain't sh!t

 

[HarlemHottie]

Maybe your fellow coli brehs are accurate in their inferences, here, OP.

If it makes you feel any better, my very first boyfriend said some iteration of all three to me decades ago, and that relationship did not work out.

Perhaps the intention behind these words is not gender-specific after all.

Y'know, I could see a situation where a guy says this. Were you 'above' him in some way? Holding out on the p?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

"I don't deserve you"
"You're too good to me"
"Im no good for you"

What is she really saying?

She doesn't want you

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

She’s either fukking someone or strongly considering fukking someone else and trying to rationalize her way out of dealing with you.

It’s not that she thinks you’re better, she just doesn’t want to put aside her toxic ways to receive what you are trying to give her.

Just because she prefers someone else doesn't make her toxic. People are allowed to move on.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It means that she doesn't find you attractive but she's trying to let you down easy with a compliment to your character....

it's like when you tell a fat chick that she's really smart and a good person

This

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

She should be wanting to make YOU her man, not the other way around. It gives them the “ick” when you chase, ask for a relationship. Women want to “conquer” the man. You’re suppose to be the restaurant / self contained, grounded, self-assured, not over chasing.

You were probably “too nice” / lack masculinity / edge / tension / less of a challenge in comparison to whoever else she’s about to or dealing with.

It should be mutual

 

[DaPresident]

Do you

 

[O.T.I.S.]

She’s giving you a “get out of jail free” card.

Dont waste your time. Time is very very important and valuable.

So basically… @Yagirlcheatinonus

 

[malbaker86]

"I don't deserve you"
"You're too good to me"
"Im no good for you"

What is she really saying?

In all honesty, ask her to explain what she means IN DETAIL about those responses and go from there. Make her use her words

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Believe her, smash then dash.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

In all honesty, ask her to explain what she means IN DETAIL about those responses and go from there. Make her use her words

Hell nah OP don’t do this shyt. It best to immediately after she say that agree and disappear. Guarantee it will turn the tables and have her doubting her feelings because guys don’t do that. They try and fight for it and women aren’t use to a dude saying “thanks I was thinking the same thing “ and immediately falling off the face of the earth.

Don’t argue, fight, plead, convince or any of tha bullshyt that make you look like a sucka

You won’t ever get a straight answer and she will spit a bunch of bullshyt at you to soothe your pride. The only thing that matters is ACTIONS and I’m sure by the time she’s telling you some bullshyt like this her actions have already started/been showing that you not the one.

If it ain’t a hell yes it’s a NO. In my 20+ years of dealings any time a woman said those phrases to me she was still emotionally stuck on another guy.

Any time a woman start acting funny and she’s not your LADY the answer is always do nothing.