Mutual attraction does not always equal ideal partner. You cannot expect someone to be completely repulsed, and go to be next to that person, just because they have a good heart, or good qualities. This isn’t a roommate.
Understood but again you’re deflecting. Do you tell women that they should be understanding of men not finding them attractive because they are older just like you tell brehs on here 24/7 reasons why they shouldn’t expect women to find them attractive?