Reverend Jesse Jackson
Somebody I Am
When black men learn to keep it in their pants and start building businesses/legacies then we can be great 
When black women learn loyalty then we can be great
- Thread starter Will Ross
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Thinking like that keeps us on the bottom
how so? black people don't have to date in order for us to succeed as a race as long as we can all respect each other
you sound selfish and it shows so much in your statements. you're disgusted by me comparing men telling women how they should feel with whites telling blacks how they should feel? guess what, blacks are not just made up of black men. we have all types of people with different perspectives and things that offend them, so if you truly care about the group you would care about the diverse groups that make up black.
you think how you feel and what is offensive to you is superior to how others feel and what offends them. no wonder you think women don't support you. you don't want support and solidarity you want people to kiss your ass.
and the fact that you aren't about black solidarity if there is no gain for you shows that you are selfish even more. you try to guilt bw into behaving how you want them to behave by saying they lack black solidarity and even you don't believe in it
moron? i see people all the time putting the group before themselves. why? because they actually care about the group more than themselves. they are not selfish.
whatever, you really need to get over it...it's never going to stop
How are we going to grow and bulid if we are not working with Each other?
can you help black men grow and build without sleeping with them? yes. the same with black women.
will, i think nothing would complete you more than a top notch white woman. go be fulfilled. by settling for a bw, you will treat her badly because she doesn't fulfill you. you will probably stunt her growth. so by dating interracial you help blacks grow and build by not damaging them
Mountain
All Star
Forget about it
and the fact that you aren't about black solidarity if there is no gain for you shows that you are selfish even more. you try to guilt bw into behaving how you want them to behave by saying they lack black solidarity and even you don't believe in it
moron? i see people all the time putting the group before themselves. why? because they actually care about the group more than themselves. they are not selfish.
Pataki, in order for there to be true solidarity appreciation must come from both sides. No one with an gram of sense will put themselves before a group that doesnt at least appreciate what they're doing.
I disagree, where im from being black and knowing our real history is a source of pride, strength and resilience for all if not most of us.
As for black women demonstrating undeserved loyalty, im not for that, if a group of brothers show no love to you and you're trying to demonstrate you're love back, you'd be a fool to continue trying.
My only real issue is with folk that do stuff like completely overlook the brothers that show appreciation for sisters, concentrate on the few consistent black women haters here, then turn around and stupidly compare this place to st0rmfr0nt.
just imagine how great blacks could have beeen if negroes weren't so obsessed with their own well-being over the group. less black politicians selling out there people, less entertainers c00ning or instead of people aspiring for their own fame through sports or booty modeling actually pursuing jobs that would help their community instead of hurt it. we could have been a very great group of people but our selfishness and individualistic attitudes ruined that
as far as the part that you said "forget about it," i recommend that you don't. i am telling you that the way that you feel and what you experience as a racial minority isn't unique to just blacks. there are events that happen in many majority-minority interactions, so please don't be disgusted by how i feel or the fact that i compare one majority to another. making members of the group feel like their experience isn't important creates divisions and a weak group.
we're so obsessed with the idea that "this segment of black people don't understand or care about me" that we don't take the time to wonder or even consider that "i don't care or try to understand this segment of black people." that takes maturity.
Anothergirl
Goat ™
When black men learn to keep it in their pants and start building businesses/legacies then we can be great
Mountain
All Star
Great post, except the bolded. I said "forget it" because I couldnt understand what you were talking about, even now I honestly can't see what the bolded has to do with anything I said.
All Im saying is that within any union there should be mutual support and participation from both sides, Im sure you agree with this. I never said that we should be completely selfish to the point of endorsing betrayal and i never said nor implied that black women experiences are unimportant. All I said was that puting yourself before somthing for nothing is foolish, and that the coli is no way near as degrading towards black women as st0rmfr0nt.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
On some real shyt (outside of the percentage of scandalous chicks that won't be loyal to anybody), dudes that can't find a chick that'll be loyal are doing it wrong. Even the most educated and powerful women have a natural tendency to follow the lead of the dude they're with. If you pick a good one, remain a real ass dude and stay on your shyt, it's not that hard to keep em loyal 
When black men learn to keep it in their pants and start building businesses/legacies then we can be great
You mean when black women support men that want to bulid then we will become great. Silly white boy