When dealing with single mothers...how do you avoid that step father role.

[Canon]

dont deal with them

 

[Tom Foolery]

Don't deal with single mothers

Took the words right out of my mouth.

 

[Smoke]

How old are you?

25

 

[Offthegrid]

25

how old is yo girl and the kid? im in da same position u are in but my girl only has one kid dats 13 n she had her at 16 i told her from da jump ion wife single mothers but age n situation plays a factor my gir daughter starting to feel her self ion like to get involved with other ppls kids but if da kid is kool with you and you are kool with kid than kool but you mite gotta work on making a baby wit yo girl or you gotta cut her off

 

[The Mad Titan]

If you aint trying to be a dad dont date a woman with a kid plan and simple. And if you want to smash let it be known from jump, altho if your a nice guy she'll catch feelings and if the kid likes you she's really gonna catch feelings.


At 25 you got another good 2-4 years left before you should even start to think about settling down.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

@MrTV4

 

[ElectroMan]

 

[sanityovar8ted]

Avoid single moms all together unless u only see them when the kids r gone. Cant escape that introduction better hope she dont introduce u as uncle so n so lol

 

[Ces1ne?]

There's nothing wrong with kids being something you don't want to deal with if they aren't yours, so just don't deal with single mums if that's how you roll.......nothing wrong with men being honest bout shyt like that if she tells you she has "priori" & everyone will be better off bc of it .
If a chick can't understand you don't want to be involved in that type of situation then there's something wrong with her if you're honest about it when she drops the bomb.
Some dudes are cut out for it & some aren't......why a chick would bug out if a dude tells her straight up "I don't want ANY kids now" is beyond me unless the chick is just looking for extra $$$.