When did you Realize that Contrary to Popular Belief most Males ain't getting Females like that?

[Neuromancer]

i actually realize this pretty late in the game. No homo but i always assumed that dudes i knew were getting mad p*ssy left and right. always assumed my "OGs" or wtv (people i looked up to) were getting it in. then i grew older and realized things aren't always what they seem.

and then i realized, even women aren't getting approached like we think. or if they get approached, it's usually the guy they deem undesirable. so when a dude they actually like approaches them, they don't know how to act cause they have very little experience in that (in getting approached by guys they like). you grow up and realize a lot of these girls we thought were out of our league or too good for us have very low self-esteem (just like a lot of us), a lot of them suffer from self-doubt, think they're ugly, think they're undesirable, wish they were more XYZ like such and such. just like a lot of guys.

the reason most guys aren't getting laid is because they see the girl with designer clothes, shades on, make up on, cold expression on the girl's face, they see dudes who they perceive as being better than them talk about how fine the girl is and blablabla. so they figure the girl already has it all figured out and what value could they provide to the girl? or they think they gotta trick a girl into fukking them cause how could she ever see the real him and still be attracted? little do they know, a lot of these girls are hurting and lost and might see you like you see a dime.

you grow up and you realize that the TV trope of the guy trying to get p*ssy and the girl trying not to give it up is just that, a trope. a lot of women are trying to get laid but in a respectful way and don't know how. but people watch so much TV that they're dead-set on re-enacting the TV tropes and end up not getting laid just like the TV character.

Brilliant post.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

I still haven't reached this conclusion....don't think I ever will either. I still think men are screwing like rabbits.
True Story - I've had an ex literally do this----->
"I'm not a fukking machine, I'm just a man. You stay putting p*ssy on me! If I was getting the p*ssy you think I was I'd be a dead fukked out broke dikk hoe!"
He was too exasperated with me, lol. Although I didn't really [verbally] accuse him of stepping out when we together, my subconscious actions/thoughts may have told on me.
We were having a conversation one day post breakup where we were asking each other anything and I asked him about cheating.
He also took a dig at me - Women always think we are when we're not and we're not when we are. I laughed because I wasn't affected but I still think what I think and admire men who aren't (truly) loose. Rare.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

nikkas make too many fukking excuses

It's literally the human imperative for man and woman to fukk. What are you guys doing?

 

[Woman of god]

Only within the past couple years did i realize that having sex and validation from women was so important to a man's assessment of self. Like that dude who killed people cuz he couldn't get a gf. And of course the posters here.

Maybe it's a guy thing. But if u have money, good job, fulfilling recreation, etc., how do u end up like a Kent? I mean sure u still have your biological urge to have sex, but how does it impede ur mind so much overall

 

[lotteryplaya]

I'm over 6 foot with dreads , a Beard , Plus I be tricking to these hoes so I dont have these problems

 

[Blackrogue]

I think if you are perceptive youll realize theres a collective thats having it more than you think.
then theres women trying to find a respectable hook up partner..or for some one that cant be traced.

Some men struggle to get sex based off interest..to others interest is always there..and then theres those men and women where sex is a tradeable commodity for money, trips, rent, security. For me this clique is large and thats why people hooking up more than you think

 

[BigMan]

Only within the past couple years did i realize that having sex and validation from women was so important to a man's assessment of self. Like that dude who killed people cuz he couldn't get a gf. And of course the posters here.

Maybe it's a guy thing. But if u have money, good job, fulfilling recreation, etc., how do u end up like a Kent? I mean sure u still have your biological urge to have sex, but how does it impede ur mind so much overall

Men who can't get laid are considered less of a man

How many ladies are willing to fukk virgins ?
What's the first insult women used to men (gay or gets no p*ssy)

 

[Diondon]

As long as you're getting some sugarwalls, you should be Ok
You don't have to run through 200 women
And like Meek said, there's levels to the shyt
Some of these nikkas tryna live like rappers with a roster of hoes
When they should focus on getting a decent girlfriend

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Most dudes don't take action

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You got bums like DJ .the broke bartender ..promoter fukkin all the girls lol

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

When I was sleeping around, I would say "shyt I'm tired of sex". When dudes couldn't relate, I started to see the facade. I've never had an involuntary dry spell.

I honestly think these dudes try too hard. I'm broke and rude and my number is around 80.

 

[Prynce]

Men having sex just not the kind they brag about. They fukking 5's and below. They not smashing dimes and they exaggerate the amount they getting. Most dudes just better of with a girlfriend tbh.

 

[Neuromancer]

I still haven't reached this conclusion....don't think I ever will either. I still think men are screwing like rabbits.
True Story - I've had an ex literally do this----->
"I'm not a fukking machine, I'm just a man. You stay putting p*ssy on me! If I was getting the p*ssy you think I was I'd be a dead fukked out broke dikk hoe!"
He was too exasperated with me, lol. Although I didn't really [verbally] accuse him of stepping out when we together, my subconscious actions/thoughts may have told on me.
We were having a conversation one day post breakup where we were asking each other anything and I asked him about cheating.
He also took a dig at me - Women always think we are when we're not and we're not when we are. I laughed because I wasn't affected but I still think what I think and admire men who aren't (truly) loose. Rare.

Why do you think it's rare? And what do you consider loose?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i'm not worried about how often other men get fukked, just how often i fukk

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

I watched this shyt for two straight minutes LOL