When do you let your woman know how much you make?

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Now? Shid only if we married and she has my kid or something.

I feel like finances are something people need to talk about before getting serious. You don’t want to be married, and THEN learn about income or bad financial habits. Everything should be laid out on the table regarding who pays what bills, etc.

 

[Dr. Acula]

Dont tell her your real name or address either brehs. She shouldn't know where you stay until after your ten year anniversary. She might be setting you up.

Nah this is one case the coli is right. Don't share exact details until living together or marriage. Because a lot of women take that information and use it to determine how she can spend YOUR money. Then when you dont want to do something they try to do accounting of YOUR shyt to try and accuse you of being cheap b

 

[Silkk]

I feel like finances are something people need to talk about before getting serious. You don’t want to be married, and THEN learn about income or bad financial habits. Everything should be laid out on the table regarding who pays what bills, etc.

You’ll be able to tell that way before it gets to that point.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

You’ll be able to tell that way before it gets to that point.

Not if she has debt and it’s hidden



“Oh by the way honey, I have a $3000 Macys, a $2000 Target, and a $5000 MasterCard credit card bill, and my car is about to be repo’d”

 

[Strapped]

NEVER op ,

 

[BrehWyatt]

Exclusive relationship with intent for long-term cohabitation/building. That shyt's going to come up if there's a job transition on the table and you do responsible, couple shyt like pros and cons (i.e., "This job requires a move, but it pays this.") and talk it over with them.