GoAggieGo.
getting blitzed.
For me, I knew when intimate activities such as kissing and cuddling dramatically decreased. Barely talking and to avoid arguing, just agreeing with what the other person said, not giving it any real thought.
When do you realize it’s over in a relationship?
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- Start date
Doobie Doo
Veteran
Nah, I'm lying to my bytch when necessary regardless of what stage we at in the realtionship.
When the trust is gone its over. This covers both sexes.
Apprentice
RIP Doughboy Roc
That’s lame
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
In my experience it’s when the texting slows down, start nitpicking things, starts acting sorta distant, time between communication will get longer. Basically she’s mentally out the door, just waiting for the branch to swing the other direction. Also when she gets kinda cold towards jokes that used to make her laugh. It’s a lot of small stuff that makes itself apparent when she’s basically done with you. If you’re in tune with her behavior you can see it coming way before the news breaks. I’ve learned the hard way. Sometimes that denial comes in and you try and fix it. Two weeks after break up she got a new man.
Saysumthinfunnymike
VOTE!!!
when either person starts gettn distant. Nobody is 'too busy' if that's your partner. That's just an excuse while they try to/are lining up whose next
Yeah, lying to people you claim you supposed to be down with is pretty lame.
Time to open the window with your parachute and leave.
Sleepy Floyd
Superstar
When she starts being cold and indifferent towards you. She'll suddenly be difficult to get in touch with and will not be enthusiastic about being with you. You won't know it but she has already lined up your replacement.
You don't have to do anything wrong for this to happen, that's just the way women are. She's never yours, it's just your turn
You don't have to do anything wrong for this to happen, that's just the way women are. She's never yours, it's just your turn
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
When the conversations get shorter with you and longer with somebody else
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
When them jokes start falling flat that used to get her laughing and smiling. It’s over
A Tribe Called Quest ™
Make Em Say Ughh ... Silk da Shocker
I want to take accountability though because as a man I know I’m not perfect that’s why I hear it becaus I do believe I can improve and sometimes I’m a little argumentative to that because I feel like I’m being policed, but at the same token the emotional abuse comes in when I rarely complain about things I may not like that she does because I know the things she doesn’t like from me will be brought up, to justify her actions even though im listening and trying to better myself. It’s hard breh trying to be this A+ man to someone who puts you down, but at the same token idk breh it’s like im lost
I deaded a chick who was perfect for me in every sense. Just cause i wanted another chick and didnt want to play games and do all that lying and shyt. She never saw it coming and my excuse was just trash.
That was wack on my part. But t be like that.
That was wack on my part. But t be like that.
Reality
Make your own luck.
Yep.
Yeah, I had a 3.5 year relationship that stalled out because of trust issues created in the 1st 3, 4 months of dating. Didn't cheat or anything but trust was lost. Will never try to salvage that again.
Idk if it's the case for other brehs, but when I'm mentally exhausted w/ a girl or over her shyt, she will automatically drop a point lookswise to me. She'll be an 8, annoy me with another stupid argument or jump to conclusions, and when I'm over it, she's a 7 at max. And it is over over when that happens.
This true but also when “I love you” become the only thing y’all can cling too. Dead it.
Having love for each other is expected because of the time y’all put in to get there but once that’s all y’all got. It’s a GG.
