When do you realize it’s over in a relationship?

ConPHIdential

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We were friends for 2 years before dating :mjcry: , we even broke up in October and got back together in February. I introduced her to majority of her college friends, damn near clouted her up to the point people associate her with me:mjcry: It’s hard breh

What don’t kill us makes us stronger. I broke up with my last ex at the worst time which was right before COVID kicked off. I had nights I would randomly break down breh and it took me a good year to get over her at the time but I’m happier now than I have been in a long time. shyt ain’t easy but time heals all wounds breh.
 

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What don’t kill us makes us stronger. I broke up with my last ex at the worst time which was right before COVID kicked off. I had nights I would randomly break down breh and it took me a good year to get over her at the time but I’m happier now than I have been in a long time. shyt ain’t easy but time heals all wounds breh.
If you FW her like that, why yall break up? I
 

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If you FW her like that, why yall break up? I

She was a great girl man. I wasn’t 100% over a previous relationship before I got serious with her and in my heart I new I didn’t really want a GF but she was a lock compared to other birds out here as far as what she brought to the table. We talked for a good year and I ended up getting a promotion where I had to move and I could only string her along for so long so I made the immature decision to go ahead and cuff her knowing I wasn’t 100% committed.

It was cool for a good year but eventually I could only put up a facade for so long until she started checking out and the tables turned. My ego and pride at the time started fukkin with me because I couldn’t accept the fact she started treating me different and I tried stepping up but it was too late and honestly like others mentioned I was playing the same game as her as far as not communicating as much, being petty, arguing, etc. Shyt was awful just being in limbo for a minute.

When we both agreed to split I knew in my heart I was the one that fukked up. Bothered me like a MF and lockdowns didn’t help at all lmao like that came at the WORST time. Got my groove back after awhile (:takedat:) and ironically you know how the saying goes they always come back but being in my mid twenties I just was moving immature. Lame ass couple years.
 

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for my most recent past relationship, it was the constant arguing about the same things

I couldn't forgive her for sexting another man, and she couldn't forgive me for cheating on her multiple times because of it
No judgement, but mind telling us why you chose to stay with her after you caught her sexting a dude?

Especially since you said you couldn't forgive her
 

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When your instincts tell you it's over she's doing too much for someone else, no affection, shady shyt, when your gut tells you your being replaced it's usually right... But women are fukking cowards they will lie when you know and or have proof they will nver admit it. So they expect you to do the breaking up...
 

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I feel like some relationships end prematurely due to things that can be talked out, when do you just No that the chapter is ending soon. Exclude obvious things like suspect of cheating, I mean in a normal relationship that involves fights, insecurities, etc?
When you no you no.
 
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