When do you realize it’s over in a relationship?

[rabbid]

When significant events come up (birthday, anniversary) and I'd rather be alone or with my dawgs

When i see her post about me on socials and i feel indifferent or disgusted

When she ends up on my social and be quick to get her off the video or move the camera (my boys told me about this one lol)

When the sex dries up or becomes vanilla like I'm going through the motions etc, start thinking about other girls during sex

When we go on dates and I'm just sitting there like, damn, this is really just a regular ass girl i fukked a few times... smh.

 

[RARI_Godwind]

Idk if this happens to anybody else but I start nuttin fast

 

[Uptown WaYo87]

What if your not doing the latter, but there’s an argument every 3 weeks. I’m currently dealing with that, and have noticed she’s super emotionally abusive.

It's every 3 weeks because of her period that shyt is annoying man

You have to start pointing that shyt out to her. After she finally sees it (which might take a while) she's going to start using the "my hormones are out of whack" excuse but you have to let her know you ready to leave at the drop of a dime. If she's scared to lose you she will make an effort to cut the shyt out

 

[Yaboysix]

When she wakes up out of her sleep and asks me why Im beating my meat to porn on the desk top computer when i have her there...

I was BIG tripping back then!

 

[Yaboysix]

Boy.....this shyt is more depressing than I expected...

 

[EffYou]

It’s truly over when you don’t exhaust yourself trying to make things right or get them back

 

[LeaveMyHairLineAlone]

When you get caught cheating

 

[3rdWorld]

You can just sense it deep in your gut that she's changed. Something up. And thisnis weeks before she verbalise it

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Apathy and disrespect

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

When y’all don't even talk anymore
and don't even know what y’all argue about. Don't even say I love you no more

When y'all wait till the water runs dry.

 

[Redwood]

If there never was one

 

[africngiant]

“you got a good one”

 

[WhatsGoodTy]

When they eat your leftovers on purpose

 

[360dagod]

I agree I’m young, also I never had security as always thought I was meh or never tried hard until I realized at 18 lots of women find me attractive I think that also plays a part in her insecurity. I think referring to myself as “handsome gang” is corny because I’m more of a humble person, and I like to be respected for being me not for looks. But I’m 6’4, college educated now, and deemed as attractive by women but for some reason I think I’m the settle down type. All that other shyt just seems demonic to me

That's very respectable...

I think all steps must be gradual....

Living together is a BIG step which can change the dynamics of a relationship for the worse..

And if you aint got enough bread to pay your own in full, she gonna potentially take advantage of that

 

[NoMorePie]

When she says she out with her friends instead of saying "girlfriends"