When dudes stay talking bout they ex... ???

[Zandía]

Well no, I think some dudes just legit don't wanna rush

but now that I know that angle works

Ha ha ha, youre welcome! But really, dont. Honesty is the best policy. Ive witnessed a dude clearly telling a chick he is not looking for a relationship and she still fukked for 2yrs! He aint have to lie to kick it...

I get not wanting to rush; from your perspective do you think 5 months is rushing?

 

[JMurder]

Only 5 months? why you so pushy damn...these women so impatient

 

[Zandía]

i dunno wtf was goin on w/ you two....but duly noted. imma try this tactic out for myself cause im just tryin to fukk these hoes i dont want to date em. i always thought constantly bringing an ex gf up would just piss a girl off...but i can see how if i just strategically bring an ex up in certain situations i can actually just make my current girl the best woman she can be.

Wow Wow Wow you niccas ARE SERIOUS!!!!
Honestly... I was expecting yall to say yes, this shyt is true! But I have actually given you some game. These dudes really be out here sensitive over an ex!!! WOW...
You know as the years go by I am realizing men and women aren't so different, but I still don't expect ya'll to get so sensitive or emotional over us

But yeah... It might spark the competitive fury for a while, but after a while its gets tired as you can see. Im actually talking to someone right now who is trying this shyt and he bout 2 steps from getting put on the block list.

I'm like not this shyt again IDGAF about your ex. Dont talk to me about her. Go back with her or get OVER IT

 

[Zandía]

Only 5 months? why you so pushy damn...these women so impatient

LOL, Whats the fastest you asked a girl to go steady, whats the slowest?

 

[End Cruelty]

No, I was that serious. Serious about not getting strung along. WTF man, we already been dating for 5 months. I wanted to move forward and he decided to stay "scared," what else should I do beg and plead? Like really what needs to be said after that, honestly?

it's not a big deal but you could have at least told him what was up. now he probably just thinks he was validated in not becoming serious with you.

 

[Kenny West]

Ha ha ha, youre welcome! But really, dont. Honesty is the best policy. Ive witnessed a dude clearly telling a chick he is not looking for a relationship and she still fukked for 2yrs! He aint have to lie to kick it...

I get not wanting to rush; from your perspective do you think 5 months is rushing?

Eh, for a girl 5-6 months a decent amount of time no lie. Especially if he's hittin it.

But on the other hand if you're on this timetable and he doesn't you aint giving time for him to fix all the loose ends if a relationship were to happen (cuttin off side hoes)

 

[b@squ1@t]

long story short: its sucka shyt...or he's just not that into you and mightve just wanted some p*ssy

either way you lose

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

What is it really about?
A few years ago I dated a guy for about 5 months. During that time he took me out weekly, always paid, called regularly, and even introduced me to family. I thought we had something solid.

Whenever I brought up being in an official relationship, he'd always bring up his ex. He'd say he wasn't ready to be in a relationship, he didn't want to rush, he was still hurt and afraid.

He told me about all the things she did, and TBH it sparked something competitive in me. I wanted to be what she wasn't, do what what she didn't, I wanted to win him over, make him unafraid to love again. After so long and still hearing the scared excuse, I made myself unavailable and changed my number.

My friends have gone thru similar... getting the girlfriend treatment without the title. Whenever relationships are brought up, he is scared, doesn't wanna rush, etc...

I'm starting to think this game yall do to get the girlfriend experience w/o claiming us. The whole ex thing sparks our competitive nature so we try hard to "win." All the evil ex talk makes the yall seem vulnerable. We think that since hes sharing his feelings with us, he must care for and trust me, creating a false sense of closeness... when really its just game to get the booty...

TRUE OR FALSE?

you should've shut that shyt down early. I mean it's cool to talk about past experiences but after a while it becomes a crutch and excuse. It's cool to be "competitive" but at the end of the day you have to stay true to yourself. Catering to people based on what somebody else did or didn't do is just a facade. He need to stop acting like a bytch.

 

[MikelArteta]

What is it really about?
A few years ago I dated a guy for about 5 months. During that time he took me out weekly, always paid, called regularly, and even introduced me to family. I thought we had something solid.

Whenever I brought up being in an official relationship, he'd always bring up his ex. He'd say he wasn't ready to be in a relationship, he didn't want to rush, he was still hurt and afraid.

He told me about all the things she did, and TBH it sparked something competitive in me. I wanted to be what she wasn't, do what what she didn't, I wanted to win him over, make him unafraid to love again. After so long and still hearing the scared excuse, I made myself unavailable and changed my number.

My friends have gone thru similar... getting the girlfriend treatment without the title. Whenever relationships are brought up, he is scared, doesn't wanna rush, etc...

I'm starting to think this game yall do to get the girlfriend experience w/o claiming us. The whole ex thing sparks our competitive nature so we try hard to "win." All the evil ex talk makes the yall seem vulnerable. We think that since hes sharing his feelings with us, he must care for and trust me, creating a false sense of closeness... when really its just game to get the booty...

TRUE OR FALSE?

lets be real you wanted to know everything his ex did and what about her, you probably even wanted to know what she looked like didn't you.

1. I've used that oh let's not rush I'm not ready for a relationship line before to just drag along a girl and get everythign I wanted without committment or exclusivity and it works

2. OR on the other hand you are just a rebound, the same how women jump into relationships a week after a breakup and use the new guy to get over the old guy some men do the same

 

[dennis roadman]

thread smells froggy

log on at 630 am to use the term "go steady" and get serious responses brehs

 

[Zandía]

lets be real you wanted to know everything his ex did and what about her, you probably even wanted to know what she looked like didn't you.

1. I've used that oh let's not rush I'm not ready for a relationship line before to just drag along a girl and get everythign I wanted without committment or exclusivity and it works

2. OR on the other hand you are just a rebound, the same how women jump into relationships a week after a breakup and use the new guy to get over the old guy some men do the same

Wrong. Whats up with coli people and "being real" can yall ever take what someone says at face value? dont care about his past hoes. She came up when I started talking about putting a title on it. All the info I was given, was offered. I didnt ask a thing. Maybe I used the info to what I perceived as my advantage, but def didnt ask for it.

 

[Zandía]

it's not a big deal but you could have at least told him what was up. now he probably just thinks he was validated in not becoming serious with you.

He moved out of state, found me on facebook all these years later. Came to see me, wanted to try again, found out he had a bytch back home. Hes just an ass in general, hes back on the block list again too